should i be sorry?
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
Philippines
June 27, 2007 9:46pm CST
Have you shouted at your mom?to the instance that she cried,coz she didnt expect that your going to do that?..have you ever felt guilty after you have a fight?what did you do,after that?...and why is it so hard for the daughters/sons to apologyze to their parents,that they cannot say that 5 letter word!....do you have some stories close to this,it would be nice if you will share it..
6 responses
@suguna6 (2)
• India
28 Jun 07
I love my mom, i don't mind saying sorry to her if it makes her happy, even if it is not my fault, coz when she would know the truth she would be proud of me that i didn't argue wid her. If it is my fault, i would definitely say sorry. Mothers are always right, that's why, atleast my mom is, :)
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
your mother is proud of you...feeling blessed having you..;-)
@sarfire03 (132)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I'm sure I've shouted at my mom in the past, especially when she yelled first. And of course it is hard to apologize because many times you think the parent was the wrong one, not yourself. Then the other parent or someone else makes you apologize, and that makes it harder. However, I don't see my mom more than once a week now, so we don't scream at all.
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
we had a same routine..same situation aswell..its very hard for me to say sorry,coz i thought its kind of pace'..now we barely see each other coz im living w/ my brother and studying here,..been missing the fight..hehehe....;-)but i feelt guilty after everything..
@erli105 (5)
• China
2 Jul 07
yes,when I was in high school,sometimes I shouted at my mom.Maybe because we had different attitudes to my study,my friends or something else.And at that moment,i didn't realize that I hurt my mom.But after I became a college student,I changed.I often regret for what I have done to my mom.Now,I know that everything my mom did is good for me.Time proves that her advice about my friens or my study is right.Now,eveytime I do something wrong or something makes she sad,I say sorry to her as soon as possible.It's easy for u to apologyze to his parents if u really love them .
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
28 Jun 07
Yeah for me its frequently that i shout at my mom and like you always feel guilty after that. But as you made her cry you have to apologize and the best way to do this is by giving her a huge hug and say to her how much you love her. Thats all and im sure she will understand and forgive you as these mothers have such a nice and big heart.
@Ploy1854 (59)
• Canada
28 Jun 07
I always felt guilty and did it all the time. ( To my mother-in-law, anyway, she's like my own mother ) Sure that when we were angry we lost ourselves. The grown-up (older than you) will never say sorry. I always apologize first. There's no one right or wrong. It's ok to say sorry because it doesn't matter anyway. The only important thing that matter is that we love each other, right? :D
