Friends Versus Family...
By Gwapako_28
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
Philippines
June 28, 2007 3:32am CST
WHICH OF THE TWO PARTY YOU ARE MORE OPEN WITH YOUR DEEPEST FEELINGS???I love my family.And i am close to them.But usually,i cant tell them my deepest feelings and emotions.Instead,i always have friends which i can share my deepest thoughts.It seems that my family wont listen and even understand me...
How about you???
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5 responses
@rdougl (469)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I think that your family has a higher expectation for you than your friends. It means more to my family to do well and be successful in life. In most cases I will be less likely to open up to them for fear of ruining family honor.... I know that both will come to my rescue if I mess up and will give me good advise if I have a problem. But in my experience, friends tend to be less judgemental. Your family will sometimes hold your mistakes over your head.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
28 Jun 07
Hi! I think everybody has his own sort of priorities, his own family setup, his own way of thinking, his own level of trust and intimacy etc. I do have my own too. I think it depends upon the nature of matters and relationsahips amongst each party. Frankly, I do prefer to share with my family instead of sharing with friends. Thats it! Have a good day.
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@sachin_sachin (1544)
• India
28 Jun 07
Both friends and family play important roles in our life so you can't choose any one .
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
I am not asking you about choosing any of them.What i am asking is,which of the two party you are more open of your problems and emotions and deepest thoughts...