I hate being called SEXY!

As matter of practicality I don't necessarily believe that looks can represent sexuality with accuracy... I know too many beautiful women who are frigid, and have never had an "O" in their lives... I am a male who been on this planet for 54 years, and I can tell you with certainty, "Sexy Is As Sexy Does"... looks can be lost in the blink of an eye, it seems through aging, poor habits, disease and accidents... but true sexuality can last as long as the person is alive... I celebrate the WHOLE WOMAN, as it were, and I have had the good fortune to have many of them in my Life... The truly sexy women, were not what society would consider as "beauties" but to me they are Goddess in the flesh, with all Her features working at wonderful levels, and not a trace of "frigid" to be found. Joy, Abundance and Peace to you and yours! :)

ZenDove..i know the feeling..i mean in my mind sexy is a state of mind..and not everyone views sexy the way i do..but yes i do know EXACTLY what you mean..if im sexy , what makes me that way? is iot my brain? anything besides my physical attributes? that never gets touched upon making me feel as if everything else i am is either not there or transparent..i mean my intelect is here..and when i hear you so sexy from my husband its always about how he voews me physically and i dislike it because i know theres so much more to being sexy then having ample cleavage or a shapely body..sometimes i just want to scream "im more than just a body you know"..you are so right when you mention that we dont choose to look the way we look we are just branches off of our parental tree..so looks can be so overated..and i understand that men are cisual creatures by nature but, isnt there more to them then what they see?i would appreciate more the "your a great mom" then your so sexy..because thats what i am on the outside to him..what about my inside? is tha not important?

but i love when my friends called me sexy, coz i m sexy then y i hate

Oh!!! Enjoy it while it lasts. You could have worse problems.

I totally understand where you are coming from. Mine also uses that line a lot or will say that I'm beautiful. I'm really glad he feels that way BUT it would feel better if he would compliment me on other things instead. I'm one of those people that if I don't get a compliment about something I easily assume that no one notices or no one thinks I am talented, smart, kind.... They other reason it annoys me that these are the only compliments he gives me is that it makes me feel like an object and that's the onlt thing he likes about me. I know in my heart that isan't the case but my head says different sometimes.

I think that sometimes men believe that saying a women is sexy will get them to do whatever the man wants. This obviously is old and it does not work. If you want to make a women fee good so that you can get on her good side, the man should just be nice.