Supporting your husband

Hi lizbeckwith, Im sorry to hear that you are having so many problems. I havent been in your shoes but think that you really need to look after yourself as well. If it feels bad theres a good chance it is. Dealing with someone that has a number of problems can be as harmful to you as them. So take steps to look after you and your children. I am unsure if all people with depression and eating disorders can alway be cured. This may be a long term, always problem. Its important to ask yourself if you can control the long term effects yourself. Goodluck to you, your son, husband and unborn child.

Being a wife is so hard, you have to put all the consequences before acting in a major problem. And before we put ourself in loosing a hubby, we still think first about our son, and that's really hard, because we always sacrifice our happiness for our son's sake...Anyway, what ever you are going now, I know you can make it.....

I would tell them unless he gets act together, that you will leave him so that way your children won't be effected by his actions.

I think you really lvoe a person mustnot give up, in particular children have, on the basis of if you do a full or can't change the situation,that when it considers whether to leave.