Best Friend Stole Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend ?
By sharon_
@sharon_ (1169)
United States
June 28, 2007 11:54pm CST
You've been best friends forever or maybe its only been a short time, but you never thought he/she would do something like this. You really like, maybe even love your b.f. or g.f. and then all of a sudden he/she is out of your life because your best friend took him/her. Has this ever happened to you? What happened with the relationships?
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6 responses
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
29 Jun 07
It has never happened to me bc now I don't even have a boy friend,but once I have a friend that her b.f .becomes her best friend's b.f.However,she didn't take it seriously not bc she didn't love her b.f just because she loves him so much and respected his choice,she and her best friend of course no longrer best friend,just common friend,In my opinion,don't depressed!bc you only lose a person who don't love you,that's a good thing for you,You are bound to find your true love sooner or later!good luck;-)
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@ashlee67 (95)
• United States
29 Jun 07
This happened to me when I was younger. My boyfriend at the time (of a little over a year) had been cheating on me for a week with my best friend before I found out. I stopped speaking to both of them after that.
A few years later, I spent a few hours spending time with them. It was awkward and while it would have been nice to re-kindle the friendship, it was not going to happen in those few hours.
I found my former best friend on Myspace a few months ago, and we have messaged each other on occasion, but it's not really much of a "friendship".
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@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
30 Jun 07
I have never encountered such a situation before and really, I hope I never will.
I guess if this really happened it would be very difficult to carry on with a friendship with my ex and his new gf because it would be so awkward. Also, it'll take time for me to get over their betrayal.
Unfortunately though, when these things happen there's not much point in blaming either party. It takes 2 hands to clap.
@ashlee67 (95)
• United States
30 Jun 07
Yeah, it's a tough situation when you lose both of them to each other. Normally, you'd cry on your best friend's shoulder if your boyfriend betrayed you, or cry on your boyfriend's shoulder if your best friend betrayed you. When you lose them to each other, there's not really anyone to turn to.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
It did not happen to me...maybe if my boyfriend allow himself to be with my bestfriend then he never really loves me at all. And I don't want to see them both.
Godd that my husband loves me so much.
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
29 Jun 07
I have no boyfriend, so I don't know this will not happen, but if there will really happen, I am sure I will resolutely breaking up, and then they left
@Deathknight_31 (500)
• Pakistan
29 Jun 07
well yes this happened once, my best friend started flirting with my gf and she became her gf, i never bothered then, i broke up with my friend and he also knew the reason, i also the didnt felt sorry, maybe it was for the best, maybe that girl wasnt meant to be and if she was she wouldnt have left me, so i dont whine over it.
