can it last?How can I make it last?
By Equilibrium
@Equilibrium (61)
Romania
June 29, 2007 2:16am CST
I have this great boyfriend which has so much in common with me,I mean,music,even his hair is curly as mine,we laugh at the same things,think the same and complete each other,have the same age,go to the same profile at the same college,and we've been together for 2 months now.The thing is that the year of college is ending today and we both live in different towns...not very far from each other but...when I asked him about what we'll do after the school ends he told me he had this relationship for 2 and a half years and he got out very hurt so he doesen't like to make plans for anything...So I'm thinking what can I do to make this last?How can I keep his feelings alive for 3 months,I never fought for a boy in my life,I've allways let go of what I would've wanted to last...and accepted my faith...But I'm tired of doing that so please help me with any advice.Thank you:)
2 responses
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
29 Jun 07
It is really difficult to forget to friends who vibed well with us. In this lifes journey it is not possible to live in the same place at all times. Since both of you have common taste, why dont you start a business together after your studies.
@Equilibrium (61)
• Romania
29 Jun 07
:)you are right but I forgot to mention that we've just ended the first college year and we still have 3 more to go,but my worry is for this summer,when there are so many temptations all arround...
@puchapox (579)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
Making a relationship last takes effort of both parties, not just yours..I think you feel that he's the right guy for you and you don't want to lose him. I know the feeling.
I don't think its a good idea yet to ask about his plans, just ask him if he's willing to make your relationship work.