Why do my discussions never cross 30 responses ?

Thanking you a lot , you made me to reach it this time , Thanking you !! Good Luck !!

I have many more friends than you and as I write here I saw another 2 friend request for me.I always except the friend request.I totally agree that my topics can be not interesting for some members or they haven't something to say.I just wonder why they didn't check my profile first before they ask friend request.I don't start many topics and the most of then are around parenting,life ,children issue,so if some one can't find something to say at my topics (and I don't mean you)why he ask be my friend? Isn't best first we check the profile of the person first we see if we have same interesting and after we ask be friend. Anyway I wish good luck at your next topic of yours,I wish soon you get over than 100 responses.

You are right.I don't want anyone give me answer if haven't nothing to say and I haven't problem when anyone of my friend didn't response to me,I just wonder only for those they choose me as a friend and after 2-3 months never came.You will see at the future that many people here just they add friends with the hope they get as much response they can but never care about them interest or them topics. Anyway is nice place here and I enjoy being here,I hope you too. PS:Don't forget tell me when you get over than 100 responses.

As you say it mat not be always so, but I had got it once. I hardly had 20 friends then. It was a few days after I joined Mylot. So if it had not been to the Top Discussion how would I hvae got so many responses. So A way of getting more responses is to make your discussion to the hot topics. And as your say about friends , Theu man not have found interesting points to put forward in your discussion. I dint get information poits on Powercut and Child aclcohol. So I avoid it rather than posting a nonsense response which may lead a negative rating. They other thing you have said about friends is also unquestionalbe. They may not ahve had time or may not have noticed your discussion. Your are policy of responding to one discussion per friend is simply superb. Good Luck !!

As you say more the number of friends, moe the responses. I have around 280 friends,most of them are active still....Anyway thanks for your words. Enjoy mylotting and have fun !!!

I can see your are supportive. Thank you !! I can feel that my notify is on. Your policy is the best, that what the friends expect too. You help them and they will help you. This notify on feature is good , I get to find inteesting discussions. I once again thank you for your care and support. Thanking you !!! Happy Mylotting !!!! HAVE FUN !!!

You are right, It is impossible to respond to disucssions created by all your friends. I respond to discussions which interest me. Thanks for you suggestion, I will make my topic more clean and attractive. Have a nice day !!!

I congratulate your presense of mind. Your vote did help me cross my destination which I set. I too follow the same policy as yours, infact many people follow the same policy. Thanks for your suggesstion, I will try and make my discussions more interesting. Have a nice day !!!

Sure you can call me anytime. We freinds are here to help you. Feel free to ask about any problem you hav e. I will always strive to help you. Wishing you luck , You next discussion will receive 100 + responses. Have a nice day !!!

yeah this may be a valid reason mt discussions may not be interesting. But I try to make them better, thanking you !!!

Yes I agree with you. Thank you for giving positive feedback on my topics. Iam sorry that you too are in a similar situation. I dint know you had a discussion on this earlier. If I had known i would not have started , as it violates the rules. I am always trying to put up a best of my self. I dont find bad if my discussion lack quality because friends like you will give me reviews on my mistakes. I wish you luck and pray to almighty that people like us get some responses. Thanking you !! Have FUN !!!

With such possitive mental attitude (PMA) you can never fail, keep going. All the best.

Thanking you again !!! Good Luck and Have Fun !!!

Thanks for those good words. it cheers me up and brigns me new spirit to work more and more. With people like you as frineds i will never fail.... Good Luck !!!

Yeah thanks for your care and support . It is because of you friends I survive here in mylot. Thanks again. I will try to make my discussions as interesting as possible. Failures are the steepping stones of success. Have fun !!!

Deal done !!! I will help you and your help me, both of you survive to success and the more important thing is both of us are happy in the end. GOOD LUCK !!! HAVE FUN !!!

You are right in someway. But if this is the sitatuion , I would not even get 30 responses. Every time you comment or rate your discussion , you discussion will POP up first in the list. So then more the chances of friends notifying. Even then I dont find many people responding. Happy Postings !!!

Thanks every single post matters and you have helped my target reacher closes. You hvae a valid point, not all would have found my discussions interesting. Neither is it possible for each mylotter to reply to posts of all their friends. Yhanking you !!! Good Luck !!

Thank you for the link I got to read this before. Its has all the point needed for success here. It was simply superb. She has made it all wonderful. Hats off !!! Thank you for your word , I will stick to interests and take care that I never cross the guidelines. I wish you all success and I pray that you get 100 responses very soon. Have fun !!!