making friends
By bhelle123
@bhelle123 (290)
Canada
7 responses
@theproperator (2429)
• United States
29 Jun 07
THe best way to make friends is to post responses to several of a persons discussions before you make the request. This shows that you have similar interests and will make responses.
Some people only try to get friends in order to send them messages tryong to get them to join other sites as referrals, so people are leery of accepting a friend request from someone who they have never shared a discussion with. By posting responses, it will show that you are not that type of person.
Good Luck.
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@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
thanks for the idea, but you know before I send a request for friend. I post my response or I joined the dicussions tha tI am also interested to. but they did not replied my request maybe they deny it. I did not ask them for something else like referring to the other site. But anyhow, I still can find someday.
@billabadmash (1011)
• Pakistan
29 Jun 07
yeah i am your friends and you are more than welcome to be my friend too by the way where you from and good luck for you mylot account.
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@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
29 Jun 07
Hello Bhelle, I would suggest that you go through the posts and answer several that are of interest to you. As you get to know these people and how they think if you have the same interest as you the request a new friend. I do not approve friends until I get to know a bit about them, so not to worry you will soon be picking up a lot of friends fast, but first you must prove that you can and will answer discussions out there. Best of luck Robin
@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
I answer several post that are interesting to me and i did not ask them to be my friend for some purposes like referring to the other site. Everytime I answer their post i request also to be my friend but they never replied maybe the deny it. anyway, thanks
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@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
**+*thanks, for sure i will response to your post. And in the whole my lot community. i try because there's a lot huh! heheheh
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@liana_pescarus (1168)
•
29 Jun 07
Hello and welcome to the nice comunity:)
I think you should check your friend list;) You are not notified when someone accepts your friend request, but you can see them in the "Friends" tab on the top.
I wish you all the best and have fun here;)
@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
Hi and thanks, I look in the friends tab but I did not see the people that I sent a request to be their friend. Anyhow, its ok for me if they dont like me. what can i do? They're still a lot of people in the community, I will try next time.
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@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
thanks for being a friend of mine. I will response some of your discussion. ok
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@IL2Knit (1141)
• United States
30 Jun 07
I would love to be your friend Hunny. I asked you already. :) I'm new here to and I did what you did. I made a post & told people I was here. LOL I also ask people that make nice replys to my posts to be friends. If you want to you can come to my friends list and ask them to be your friend too.