I wanted to kill my husband...

If the husband really is dangerous for the family, the wife and children have to get away as soon as possible. Are there any shelters in your country? Maybe people who volunteer to help? Some sort of therapy may help all the family but the most important thing is that the wife and children get some protection if the husband is violent.

hold your horses!!!!lower that temper girl!!!!if you thought of killing your husband can give you a sense of fulfillment then go on, but have you thought of the consequences of doing such?how about the kids?who would take care of them?what would happen to them?who will care for them and provide their daily needs?think of it first girl...

I do not think it is a good idea to do that. I want not want to ask your friend how he hurts her.what I want to let your friend know is killing him is not a good solution.it is not good for your friend, for her children. you know if she kills him, her kids will lose their father. it is a great hurt to her kids. she loves her kids, right? she do not want them to be hurt , right? so stop thinking in that way.

I dont know your friend, the situation with her, so my comments can be somehow imaginative. Well...everybody has hard moments like this when feels that all life is senseless and he cant control nothing what happens arround, including the family life. Some relaxation will help. If she releases her stress better when there are no people arround her, the best advice is to have 1-2 or more days only for herself.Just to have a break and to travel anywhere. If she is a person who needs support and love -give her your friendly hands or try delicate to talk to her husband to help and to be patient. Good luck.

As I read about your friends feeling of depression I'm remember of something like it before when I was in that situation. In times of that your such a big help for her because you are the one as of now can trust her and share her secrets and feelings. I can't give her advice coz I really don't know whats her real big problem. I can say to you that don't leave her and as much as possible give her more time to give her comfort and advice so that she will not do anything can harm her self or others. Try to amuse heer invite her somewhere like window shopping just to make her relax and free from worries.

Wow, you as a friend really need to help her, especially with her children. Then, you must also help her fight this. Suggest to her the options like marriage counciling, or even divorce(if that is really neccessary). talk to her more, thats what friends are for.