Which boy do i choose?
By naem86
@naem86 (123)
Malaysia
June 30, 2007 7:41am CST
I'm 18 and currently dating a guy.We've known each other for a year or 2 now, and been dating 3 months. He's very, VERY serious about the relationship , I on the other hand am young and want to have fun. He lives about an hour by car from my town which is a real downer, and is always talking about marriage after college, but I know I don't love this guy, at least not yet. Don't get me wrong, I like him an awful lot. And love him, but as a friend. He's also disgustingly good looking. But last week I started a film workshop, and met up with an old friend, who I'm falling for. Regardless of his looks, he's great fun and we never stop laughing. I have been told he likes me, but I'm not sure. The only thing I'm certain of is that I like the film course guy a lot, as much as my current boyfriend. Should I break up with my boyfriend for the mere possibility of a relationship with another guy? The film guy may only want to hook up and should I throw my boyfriend, and friend for that?
sincerely
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1 response
@Darkwing (21583)
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30 Jun 07
No, you shouldn't. If you've made up your mind you want some fun whilst you're still young enough to do so, then a serious relationship with either of them is out of the question. To achieve a good circle of friends, both male and female would be far more healthy for you, and if you fall in love with one of these friends, sobeit, you will progress in time. But, if after three months, a guy is serious about you, then I'll wager that by the end of college, he will have changed his mind, or even after you're married. Tell them all to lighten up and join you as friends, in having some fun... you're obviously not ready to choose or make any decisions yet, and to be frank, you have plenty of time for that!
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