Is it right to suspect someone you love a lot?

it's not enough that we think we perfectly knew our partner and then trust them perfectly too...are you aware with "WOMAN INSTINCT"? if you really feel something suspicious my advice is go snoop out juz to make you satisfy BUT! be more extra carefull coz it would hurt him know your thingking something. SPACE is good reason but check exactly if it's what you/he really has to have before you let both have it...goodie luck! ;)

you should talk to him. you should let him know how you are feeling. when you have those feelings you need to always talk honestly about how you feel. i have had those feelings before and they were what was going on. i am not saying that is what is going on with you, but you need to make sure you talk to him. to tell him that he is cheating or doing something wrong, but ask him. being honest is the only thing you can do for now. if things continue then you need to start looking to see what is going on.

That all depends. Usually when your suspecious its because there is a reason. It's not just the working late or more it is other behavor that can inter in to the equasion. Snaping at you or the kids, sprushing up more when he leaves the house, Things like that will make you suspecious too. Some time there are telltale signs you just ant to egnore. Don't do it find out. Make a date to meet him for lunch or supper. Check his reaction. Usually your gut instenct is right. We as woman just don't want to know and sometimes we can't admit that something serious is wrong. So find out somehow then you will know how to deal with it.

No friend dont suspect your hubby bcoz it wont give U any peace of mind ,its better to talk across the table.

If there's a reason to be suspicious, why not. I am married too and if there are signs that indicate that my husband is having an affair, I would be on my guard. I do not want to be the last one to know.

hey there.. i think it's normal for women, wives or gfs to feel that way when the other person is not around much or busy.. and u feel that they might be drifting away. It might be nothing.. and yes, it might just be paranoia. You can always try to make him spend more time with you maybe on his off days, and just see how his response is towards you.. you don't have to go snooping around his personal stuff.. just talk to him and get him to communicate with you. If he refuses, then maybe there's something bothering him.. maybe not another woman.. just something that he has trouble confiding in.. However, as a wife, i have long learned not to just brush aside my gut feelings.. if my gut feelings still persist.. then you really have to find out what it is.. Anyways, i hope it's nothing .. and i hope you manage to settle your paranoia.. i wish you all the best!

communication is very essential to every relationship, thus, one thing you need to do. we, wives, get paranoid from time to time (that's normal, hehe). and our hubbies should help us get rid of it by assuring us that they are not doing anything wrong. securing each other emotionally is one of our lifetime jobs/obligations towards our spouse, and talking about concerns would help a lot. second is spending time with each other more. most couples lose the 'fire' coz they start to drift into their own separate worlds. don't let it go that far, work it out soon. pray, i'm sure things will get better for both of you :)

I'm dealing with the same issue. I don't have the gut feeling but my mind is playing with me. It's easy to lose track of reality when you're away from your partner a lot. You start feeling a bit disconnected because you're not getting that quality time together. I know when my man finally gets off work, he's very tired and has 2-3 hours before he goes to bed. He's lucky if he gets one day off out of a week. Unless he's given you a reason to be suspicious, I'd try to shake it off. I would think that he'd rather be at home relaxing and enjoying life and his wife, then working himself to the ground. I wish you the best!

I have learned to always trust my gutfeeling. Usually when i feel that something is wrong - I am usually right about it. Why not talk to him about it, only to calm down perhaps. there is a chanse that he is just working and that u are beeing paranoid.

Communicate!! If he is defensive then you might have something to be concerned about. He should want to reassure you and become open about his activities until you can tame this feeling. Better to deal with it than to let it fester. Good luck since this is one thing that you don't need to mess up a good thing if it is indeed a good thing.

I was and I was right. I don't think it hurts to be curious what your husband is up to at work.I thought I was reading my ex husband wrong untill he left me and I found out later I was right all along.

No it's not wrong, you could just be a bit paranoid since he's been so busy lately, or something really could be going on. I say listen to your intuition. You're probably right. It's better to trust yourself and at least talk to your husband about what you think is going on, than to sit back and continue to think about it constantly and worry yourself sick over the situation.

it is human to suspect esp.those we love dearly not say about hus/wife.Please make sure that he is not misguided/you are being sidelined.

I'd only be worried if no extra income was coming in. If he get's paid salary, does his job regularly require him to stay late? If not has there been a new project at work that is now requiring him to stay later? How much do you really know about his job? Maybe this is something you can find out more about before jumping to such conclusions. Start reading his text messages or looking in his e-mails. If he has nothing to hide then he shouldn't get mad. If he get's mad he's probably hiding something. That would be a red flag and a good place to start. But I wouldn't go bam I wanna read your stuff because I think your messing around with another woman! Do it nonchalantly and laid back if he asks what your doing just saying, reading your texts messages if he asks why just say just because, if he gets mad or tells you stop just ask, "Do you have something to hide?" If he says he doesn't then let him know then there should be no problem with you reading his texts.

i think all woman have this tendency to be suspicious...at everything, especially their partner. it's normal to feel like that...better that than no clue at all. but instead of being suspicious and making yourself so unhappy, why not confront him and hear him out? maybe it's really work related? as for me, i can say that i have 100% trust in my partner as we share every single details. but he will tend to be suspicious when i need to stay up late in the office to meet some clients, but then i stay because of work and not some other 'hanky panky'. talk to your husband, it may be the truth that he's busy at work!

Well a good thing to do is NOT WAIT IN FOR HIM..Reverse the shoe on the other foot..Sometimes men need to know in a very gentle and subtle way, without argument what they are doing may be wrong..now one way to find out if hubby is being naughty is to see if he still has strong feelings for you..what you should do is get some new clothes and get a new hair do and really do something special for him at home..and some really sexy undies!! now then..let's see what he will say lol..you dress up super sexy and say to hubby..you have been working so hard Darling..i have made a special dinner for you..he will either feel terribly guilty and tell you..or realize what he is doing is wrong..try it..

I think you just miss his company very much, but if your sixth sense tells you there is something wrong then you should trust it, and have a very open discussion with your husband and let him know about your fear and uneasiness. It is no good walking around with this and it is eating your heart away my friend. Talk to him.

I think is not right to suspect somebody you love him, but you must trust for godd relationship. best regards

I think this is very common. When you love someone deeply, you will care about him and it will lead you to be jealous. Since you love this one so much, you are so afraid to lose him. So I can understand you.

I think you should talk to him,tell him your feeling. when you have these feeling,you should not just keep inside.Anyways,you should trust him.