how it works in the role of caregiver?

hi..bhelle i'am a filipina I'm here in the philippines now and i have planning also to go abroad and earn a big salary.you during our school time we learn from our teacher that we caregiver we have the right to complain about the work that are included to do in our profession.this things happen to you is not good and people treat you as animals,they dont think that the person or the caregiver they hired has a caregiver bills of right,for as caregiver we have the right to take care of ourself.this is not an act of selfishness.it will give us the capability of taking better care of my client.then to seek help from others even though my client may object.I recognize the limits of my own endurance and strength.to maintain facetsof my own life that do not include the person I care for,I knowthat i do everything that I reasonably can for this person,and I have the right to do some things for ourself.to get angry,be depressed,and express other difficult feeling occasionally.to reject any attempt by my client(either conscious or unconscious) to manipulate me through guilt,anger or depression.to recieve consideration,affection,forgiveness,and acceptance for what i do from my client for as long as I offer these qualities in return.to take pride what I'am accomplishing and to applaud the courage it has sometimes taken,to meet the needs of my client.to protect my individuality and my right to make a life for ourselves that will sustain me in the time when my client no longer needs my full-time help.to expect and demand that as new strides are made in finding resourcces to aid physically and mentally impaired older persons in our country,similar strides willbe made toward aiding and supporting caregivers.ihope it can help you bhelle.read it and understand and dont let them kick fight..they dont have right to make it and torturing us..

i dont work as caregiver anymore since then i quitted the job, that expeienced was really a nightmare for me. i even complain to the labor that time but the closed the case after my lawyer promised me to follow-up such case, but she never did. That lawyer also made my life miserable because she have all my papers such as work permit which is the most important thing here in canada as a worker under work permit. but she let it expire without doing nothing. I am hoping that if you will go abroad you can find a good employer not like mine. for now i am still here in canada but i dont have work permit in our terms "I AM TNT" i am not working for now, but i am waiting for my papers again.

Hello Ladies, I am sorry you had such rotten clients..even with a contract people can be selfish. Finding the right ´fit´for an assignment and the family is part luck but also a process of educating each side. I am in Costa Rica. Can fipipina work in Costa Rica?