I am SO tired. How do you make a newborn sleep?

@GuateMom (1411)
Canada
July 1, 2007 1:05am CST
My one month old is very scheduled and seems to have been born that way. He wakes up at 8 pm, 11pm and 3 or 4 am. It wouldn´t be that bad except that he wakes up for good at 3 am! Unfortunately, I have a toddler also. He is up between 5-6, so even after my newborn sleeps, I have to stay up. I have been going to bed at 7:30-8 pm just to get some sleep, but I´m exhausted. And tonight, it is midnight and both the boys are up. I´m already super tired and just want to cry! The worst of it is that I have an article deadline for 10 am and haven´t done anything because I´ve been too worn out and have been looking after kids. They don´t give me a single minute during the day where both are asleep or quiet, to write and my husband isn´t here right now. Sorry to vent, I´m just feeling really weary and overwhelmed and MyLot is always a good place to let it out. :(
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
2 Jul 07
Guatemom i really do feel for you but can sympathise with you i had five children and went through much the same as you only difference was that at seven am each morning i would have to be up and have my kids ready as i drove a school bus and would have to take my children with me ,I didn`t have anyone to help care for them as hubby was already at work but my children were not very good sleepers at all and the first one was still waking up so much at night we actually documented that on one night he woke thirteen times through the night need less to say i was just so exhausted but the worst part was that none of my five ever slept through a single night until they turned three years of age .It was a very trying time indeed .The only thig i can suggest is if you start them in a routine i put the little ones that i care for down at 10am let them have a couple of hours sleep and then they are woken up they are kept awake until two then they all go down again .It does take time for a proper routine to be set but having two is a bit more difficult especially when you have a deadline to meet .Is there anyone who can sit with your children for a couple of hours a day just to give you a little bit of time for you to complete your things ,remember you need to keep well so that you can continue to care for your little ones and if you get down too far it`s really hard to come back ,i learn`t this the hard way .All the best i hope it works out for you
@GuateMom (1411)
• Canada
7 Jul 07
Wow, I am impressed! I can barely handle two kids and you have five to contend with! My firstborn was like yours, waking up to 20 times in a night! I don´t think that is good for the child OR the parents, but since we pretty much had Irish twins, the problem got worse! Although for the past few days, he has finally settled into a routine (which basically involves no naps!) and sleeps through the night now.
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
1 Jul 07
I was where you were a number of years ago. Sleep is essential for basic functioning so somehow you must get some sleep. My advice would be to appeal to your husband to allow you to get some much needed sleep when your husband is around. Let him have some control over the kids while you rest and regenerate yourself. As for getting your infant to sleep, at one month old there really isn't much you can do short of taking him back into bed with you. If you are that tired, then by all means take him back to bed with you after he has nursed just so you can get some rest. Eventually, when he reaches a certain weight he will begin to eat less frequently during the night, but right now he needs his nourishment. Good luck!
@GuateMom (1411)
• Canada
1 Jul 07
The problem is that my husband works most nights of the week as a musician and is also a teacher! That doesn´t leave him much time at home anymore, but he does try to help out when he is here. Things have actually gotten worse since I wrote this post. Last night both boys were awake alternating! I got a couple of hours of sleep until 11 pm, then couldn´t sleep again until 5 am and then the older one was up at 6:30! I´m kinda wishing kids had off switches right now!The only good thing is that I wrote quite a few articles last night, figuring I would be too wiped out to do them today!
• Malaysia
1 Jul 07
Yes, it's indeed tired to have two little baby at home and have to work for dateline. My autie always uses her tactic, to softly tap the baby leg in the afternoon, so that her baby doesn't sleep too long in the afternoon. After that, my niece is too tired at night and doesn't wake up in the mid night, and it save a lot of hussle.
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• United States
1 Jul 07
Hang in there! As you know, this will eventually pass but unfortunately you will just have to get through it. I remember coming home from work at midnight, going to bed about 1:30 or 2:00 and then getting back up at 5:00am. My wife left for work at 5:30 am until 9am. So on top of getting up early without much sleep, I had 2 kids to wake up at 7:15 to get ready for school and then pack everyone into the van for about a 3 minute ride to school. I was hard but now those days are gone just like it will be for you. Of course you don't want the days to pass too fast with your kids, it'll just be nice when you get a few more hours sleep to be a little more awake for them.
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@GuateMom (1411)
• Canada
1 Jul 07
Thanks for the encouragement. I will be glad when the baby starts to sleep through the night, that´s for sure! At the moment, I can´t really enjoy my time with my children because I am so worn out. And my work takes longer because my productivity is lower due to lack of sleep! The worst thing I did the other day, after getting up at 2:30 am, was accidentally erase my blog which is one of the ways I earn online! I was so upset, but in my sleep-deprived state, I just messed up. Thank goodness Host Gator was able to restore everything for me! :D
@781218 (5)
• China
1 Jul 07
I have the same feeling of you ! My baby is a girl,she is one year old now.now I feel it easy to take care of her because she can sleep for a worlle night.but it is dificult when she was one year old ago.she always wake up at least twice one night.so I can't sleep well.You will feel well when your baby grows up a little,and you will find how lovely he is!My dautor is all the world for me !I love her very much!
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