how can an extrovert and introvert work a relationship?

Your right there, compromising plays a big part I think. My husband is introverted and I am extroverted and somehow we talk things over and like you said compromise and make sure that both of us are happy in what we decide to do. It may not always work but we do try.

similar situation here... i'm the intro guy i find it pretty damn difficult.. sometimes i just get fu*ked up for no particular reason.. just take a big picture of the reality.. get depressed knowing that a lot of things in my life are just not the way i wanted them to be while she seems no to have any problem at all.. always happy and full of life and joy.. wish i could be the same..