can u say ur frnd u hv no time for them?

It must feel aweful to have your friend find excuses not to meet you. I feel sometime peopel change and they move on with their lives as they don't feel you are not important for them. Yes it can hurt. But one should be able to take these things in your stride as you will make new friends who are REAL friends and who would value your friendship and not treat you as crap. So you too move on and look forward to meeting nice, friendly people like me. LOL. Cheers:)

i have never had someone say that to me but it doesnt mean that i dont know what it would feel like. the thing about people is we all mature at different levels, we eventually grow distant with what we used to have in common, be it leaving high school, or a job, or moving away. People come in and out of our lives for reasons they show us certain aspects of ourselves we didn't know existed. if you friend has said this to you you need to ask yourself: Was he/she a friend to begin with? Have you both grown apart? gone seperate ways in life? Have different likes or dislikes to when you first met? Or have you done something to provoke this sort of response from your friend? your best bet would be to take it on the chin, remember the good times that you both shared, laughter, tears, loves and hates. Take it as a life lesson that people change, change is why the world still turns, you are as unique as the next, you have your own individuality that someone else may need in their lives, and you need to let this 'friend' go and do his/her own thing. There are plenty of more people in the world that you can befriend and soon you will forget how you are feeling now. Just be you, thats the best thing you can offer someone. you will find those adaptable to your current life position.