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It may b kinda late 2 b gg thru an identity crisis now... still figuring out wat s happening... wen i tot i finally realised tht tis is me... everytin s being changed.. is it rtye o fair to be changed into a new person completely jus to please ppl? or mus it be e traditional thingy tht women mus comply to rules set by elders n men?? jus wen i tot tyms hv changed...in sum way they hv to amend women's lifestyle usin culture, values n wat not... it still doesnt matter if we r happy as long as tis is being done and they get to be happy..was talking to "a" (u noe who u are) e other nite wen i realised tht everyone goes thru tis except fa me i m STILL gg thru it... i keep telling everyone tht its a matter of choices.. u chose to b happy sad angry or jus plain stupid!!! i guess in e end u gotta decide using ur mind instead of ur heart.. coz in e end ur own happiness is impt..sme1 who tinks u hv to change to please others may nt love u fa who u r..doesnt mean he doesnt love u but nt in everway i guess...tings might change wen u start demanding tht he needs to change as well... i wonder y they need to complicate things further..cnt life jus b simple?? acceptin and loving sme1 n nt hv e intention to change them later in life..they do noe it will confuse their partners to thinking do they really love u?!! yet they rather face up to it wen they reach tht stage..it will be better to noe al tis b4 getting in a relationship then.. no one is perfect but as long as u cn keep ur partner happy nuthin else shld matter... y love in e first place if u cnt even do tht ya??