So-called friends.

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I have recently decided to do away with so-called friends. Before my husband left we talked about getting rid of all the negativity in our life, we have started to see a lot of things that we didn't necessarily see before. I needed friends when my husband deployed and there were only a few that were there. But if these so-called friends need something, they sure don't mind picking up the phone! One person in particular is on my mind and I am so glad that she is out of my life. I had no idea what a negative impact her and her husband were. Every time I would visit she would want something. I mean the last time I came to visit, she actually had the nerve to ask me to cook dinner after I had been driving for over 6 hours to come visit. Her house is always filthy when we would come to visit. At one time, it took me close to 4 hours to do the dishes that were piled up in her sink, along the counter, the stove and on the table, not to mention the old food that was in the pots and pans. She has children for God's sake! She then decided to make up this wild story about my ex-husband that her, her husband and my ex-husband had a tryst and her husband and my ex-husband had relations. I was so shocked that she would go so far to make something so vile up. The things that she said, were just so uncharacteristic of him! I have known this man for 12 years and I know he wouldn't do the things she said he did!!!! I told him what was said and he is hopping mad! I won't even go into what she has tried to do with my current husband. But I laugh it off, because she is pathetic and my husband has absolutely no interest in someone like her. He told me that she is trashy and she has long lost her looks, men only find her remotely interesting because they know she's easy. Which is true. All she does is lay in her bed, play on the computer and expect her oldest daughter to be mom to her other children. I think it is sad and disgusting. So, I am taking out the garbage! I have better things to do with my time than to waste it on someone who has no self esteem, no pride and no loyalty to family or friends, someone who feels the need to destroy every bit of happiness in other people lives because she is so miserable in her own life. Thanks for letting me vent! Do you guys have anyone in your life that has done things like this?