I am cleaning up on friends!
By kimmijayne
@kimmijayne (243)
Australia
July 2, 2007 9:58pm CST
Just to let any of my "friends" know i will be cleaning up on friends in the next week or so, no offence to anybody but if we dont ever respond to each others disscussions i will be deleting you, to ll the real friends i am making on here you will definatly not be deleted, this is just an effort to be able to pay attention to the people on here i belive deserve it, i will not be accepting just random friends anymore if weve talked i will add you :) i hope nobody thinks i am being mean but as most of you will know, its just not worth having so many "extras" as it makes things very difficult.
i know this may not make sense i just wanted to give people warning so they dont feel hurt or wonder why.
thankyou to everyone!!
kimmijayne
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5 responses
@BELMCstar (1341)
• Australia
3 Jul 07
I have thought about doing this, as I have over 15 PAGES of friends, as opposed to you who has 15 friends.
The way I look at it, it usually does not take that much extra effort to have extra friends listed, and it is only when you say you wish to be notified of their new discussions that you have a problem.
I am going to change my settings so I only get notified when a referral starts a discussion, and a few 'true' friends on here.
Aside from that, I will be cutting back on the list.
I tried to 'get rid' of some friends once, and I did it for a while.
I did notice, however, that some of my 'deleted friends' requested to be friends again, so they must think I start good discussions.
After that, i decided to just keep the friends I have and to respond to the discussions I feel are worthy.
After all, I only have a certain amount of time, and so I need to use it wisely.
@kimmijayne (243)
• Australia
4 Jul 07
lol hi BELMC star i actually finished cleaning em up before you came in i had only 5 pages lol and i managed to get it down to 1 page and thats of people i actually talk to
welcome integrity lables!!
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
4 Jul 07
Isn't it sad that you have to do this in discussion form when you could inform the one to be deleted that you are and the reason why. Such a clean break would be valuable to them for their next friendships. Anyway, do what you feel you have to do and I hope that you end up with the quality that you think you need. Hope it goes well!
@mummymo (23706)
•
3 Jul 07
Well I have often thought about deleting friends who have not been active for months but I have never actually been able to do it! I know it sounds silly but that is just me - I would hate to think that someone came back and found I had deleted them! lol Good luck with the tidying up kimmijayne - hope I will still be on that list! xxx
@kimmijayne (243)
• Australia
4 Jul 07
Hi mummymo! of course you are lol, basically i just deleted people who arnt refferals and dont actually talk to me, i figure that way i will get a bit more quality time outta the site lol
