What would you do if your date becomes cold?
By maybel13
@maybel13 (205)
Philippines
July 3, 2007 1:40am CST
Have you ever had this experience? YOu have dated somebody in a few times. Both of you had a great time together. You are making plans for the future. Everything seems to go smoothly. And suddenlyyour dating partner goes cold. The phones are not answered. The mails are not responded. No meetings are discussed, as if past never existed. Why this happened?This happens with many of us. Out of two partners, one takes a unilateral decision to break away and does not inform the other. There maybe many reasons for going cold, including finding somebody else. But is it worthwhile chasing the cold date any more? No. But most of the break away partners do not say so clearly and the change in relationship is not spelled out. That causes problem for a certain time. This is surely unethical. One should never behave like this. But you can do nothing about it.
You have no option but to wait for some time and then ask straight question. Are we separate now? Are you no longer interested in meeting me? After getting a clear yes, begin again. Do not ponder and worry over why the earlier person behaved so unethical and unreliable?
This kind of behavior certainly shocks. But there is no use. Try to recover as soon as you can. This time, be more careful in selecting your new dating partner and hope for the best. Despite many failures, success always comes. That is your right. Please claim it.
2 responses
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
4 Jul 07
If many people want to love and breaking up, it will turn very cold, and you don't want to contact, then you don't want a phone I hate to see you, it also has the potential of what he encountered trouble, you has better understand what happens before making any moves.
@JeffMoney (71)
• China
3 Jul 07
I think if the one gets cold,there may always be some reasons,such as he/she meets new ones or he/she thinks you are not fit for him/her and so on.You can forget it and then move on.This may be the best way.