If your best friend betrays you,what response will you have?
By kevin117
@kevin117 (95)
China
July 3, 2007 2:15am CST
Two years ago,when i was a director of a department in a company,one of my best friends betrayed me .He stole some of my very important file and throw himself into the lap of the other similar company for money.
At that time ,I feeled so suprised,amazing and angry.but it just seemed that i couldn't do anything except that!
If this happens to you ,what response will you have?
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7 responses
@wolves69 (755)
• United States
3 Jul 07
Let it be, unless his actions jeopardize your career. He'll get what he deserves, and there's no upside by making waves. I'll never trust him again.
However, the other company might appreciate the notification that the individual is not to be trusted.
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@kevin117 (95)
• China
3 Jul 07
yep,you are right ! If the same situation happens to me now again ,i will expose him,and never trust him any longer. i don't also become softhearted that much any longer.i will give him something that he deserves even if he begs me.
so thanks a lot for your attention!
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
3 Jul 07
i will feel confused, angry and sad how could my best friend done that to me. i will exposed him man..
@senthil2k (1500)
• India
3 Jul 07
I will first confirm whether he has done it intentionally and cheated me with purpose. It happens sometimes that, because of circumstances that it may appear for us that someone like our friends has cheated or betrayed us. We should confirm it first.
If the friend has cheated me intentionally, then I will just ignore him. Let him experience the consequences. I cant believe him hereafter and try to stay away from him.
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@kevin117 (95)
• China
4 Jul 07
YOU are right ! we shuold first conform whether he has done it interntionally and cheated me with purpose!But sometimes whether he does that intentionally or not,I will not put up with that cause he had violated the conscience and principle as a true man for himself benefits on earth!Of course in some special situation such as one that he did that so as to help others ,I will forgive him!
thank you for your response!
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
3 Jul 07
Of course,very angry,I am not your serious condition,I had a very good friend, One day I like the one on the boys, this friend said to me the boys cuss.I will not let him together, but then I came to know that my friend is fond of the boy,and secretly, and in his contacts,at that time i was very angry,more sad is that if she liked the boy, we can fair contest, perhaps i can withdraw, but she why should i?now it's feeling a little,may not want such people and make friends.
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@kevin117 (95)
• China
4 Jul 07
For love,most of people conduct themselves with a little selfishness ,as I can understand.And it will not be out of the way.But for your friend who told you about the boy's cuss which in fact don't exist in ,he went beyond the bottom line , I felt a little sorry.however on the other hand ,it also reflect the fact that you will excel her in conduct .Maybe when the boy know about this point ,he will give up your friend and turn to you !
so,good lurk to you!
LOL!
@Ricko82 (584)
• Philippines
10 Jul 07
That friend of yours was wretch Kevin. I wonder where you got him from? The best way you can deal with him is to neer associate with him again. As to the files hw stole from you; forget about it. Learn your lesson and never repeat the same mistake again.
I sent you a request ot add you as my friend, I hope you;ll give me favorable response. I wont steal anything from you, I promise. LOL
Keep safety!
All the best,
Ricko82
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@kevin117 (95)
• China
11 Jul 07
well,my friend is my classmate from primarily school to higher school.we have kept company with each other for almost 15 years when i trusted him and he did as well.we have already kept a deep friendship until half a year ago when he stolen something important from me for himself benefits.therefore,i became so angry that i decided to break off the friendship.
yeah,i will be take that seriously.
lol,thank you for your sould response!
@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
14 Jul 07
It doesn't sound to me like he was being a very good friend. I also had a couple of friends who betrayed me, not quite so badly but badly enough where it really hurt. I cannot trust them again, and I don't think that you should probably trust him again. If he has done this sort of thing once, he may do it again, so don't set yourself up for it.
I will not seek revenge against my friends. If your friend's actions endanger your job, then you should not hesitate to seek legal action if possible, or at the very least let both companies know about his actions.
