the importance of being home..

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a friend emailed me about an article from Bo Sanchez a famous catholic writer here. its an inspiring short story and i think i should share it here for all you guys. I love Rubber bands by Bo sanchez Let me tell you a crazy story I heard recently. there's this husband who out of sheer love for his wife decided to prove it to her. So he swam the wildest oceans, crossed the deepest rivers, and climed the highest mountains to show his deep devotion to her. But in the end, she divorced him. WHY? Because he was never home. (Get it?) Let me tell you an experience I had as a kid. One day, I asked Mom, "why do my shoes keep eating my socks?" As a young boym that was always a mystery for me. All my other classmates never had that problem. their socks remained tight and high up their legs the entire day. mom didnt answer my question but simply gave me two rubber bands which i dutifully placed around the top of my socks.. to this day, 15 yrs later, i still have permanent circle marks around my legs. But aside from giving me this slight defect, the bands worked like magic. It never occured to me that dAD and Mom didnt have the money to buy a new pair of socks for me. So i wore 5 yr old socks, all soggy, grayish and garter less. and yet amazingly, i never complained. i believe it was because Dad was always home when i needed him. every night, after coming from work, we'd jog together, sit aroung, and talk about Tarzan, Farrah Fawcet Majors, God, and what i wanted to be when i grew up (a stockholder). On saturdays, we'd walk to cubao, eat a hotdog-on-a-stick, and buy new rubber bands before going home. I've learned that in truth, we don't want our loved ones to show their love for us in big ways. Swimming the wildest oceans, crossing the deepest rivers, and climbing the highest mountains seem spectacular - BUT that's not what we really want. Deep in our hearts, we just want them HOME. With us. Sometimes, God will operate that way. Suddenly, He decides not to answer our prayers, or fill our need, or heal our sickness, or give us the miracle we're asking for. (He's got reasons why He wont, and believe me - they're pretty good ones.) so He'll just be there beside you, holding you in a hug. sharing your pain.. Weeping as you weep. oh, He might give you some rubber bands. And that small comfort from Him will be more than enough to sustain you. BEcause the most essential truth you already know. ....HOME.