What to Do with a Whining Ex?

i suggest that you learn to pretend to be calm,do not show your angry even when you really cannot bear anymore.Maybe this will help you a little.Good luck!

I definately know what is going on with you. An ex of mine practically stalked me for a good 6 months after we broke up - including showing up at places he knew I'd be and pestering my little sister about me. What did I do? I gave him one last chance to leave me alone, and when he blew it- I changed everything to cut him out completely. I blocked his e-mail, his myspace, his phone number, and I made sure my little sister did it too. If you no longer have feelings for him - CUT HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE NOW! There is no use in prolonging it because it just makes it that much more painful.

you know kaien_kbo you remind me of myself way back years ago, and that was exactly what my ex is doing. i guess it is much better if you just ignore him, or have your phone number changed so he don't have any chance to talk to you. that was what i did before, i changed my phone sim and preferably our landline number so he can't call anymore. you should be lucky that is only what he did. me, i experienced waking late up at night because he was prank calling me at our landline and sometimes he's outside our house with his friends. he was threatening me and stuffs, you know.

yah, i agree. that must really be annoying. make him understand once and for all that its over and that you dont even think about him anymore. or just simply ask him to stop sending you crap messages because you dont appreciate getting any from him. if he still keeps at it, i dont know what could be wrong about him.. maybe he just needs to see you happy with someone else for him to stop mooning about you.