What would you give more importance to beauty or brain in your spouse?

I prefer both... but I do not consider them as equal. Brain is very much important above all else and beauty is not far enough from brain. You know, you are first attracted to the physical appearance of your wife but just make it sure that she has brain. ~mar

Actually, I don't care at all about the beauty of the guy I'm wanting to date. To me, as soon as I get to know who they are and what their personality is like, they become physically attractive to me. I don't know why. So basically, to me, if they have a great personality on the inside, I'll find them physically attractive on the outside as well. It's a great combination, albeit a little weird because most people have their ideas of physical beauty whereas I have very little. I do enjoy a guy who has long hair, though, and I also tend to go for the strong guys who are skinny and don't look like they have any muscle.