Baby?

Hello mari_skye!:-) We didn't plan anything specifically. We got married in December 2004 but started living together in may 2005. We remained together for two months without any planning about not to have kids. Then I moved to France for my studies. She was having her studies back there. After finishing the studies she came to join me in March 2006 but had to leave again in April of the same year but our baby was conceived in that time. She got back later in July and remained with me till this March. We had our baby in January. During all this period, as you can see, we have been together not for much time but whenever we have had the chance to be together we have enjoyed each other's company. I think basic ingredient for a happy married life is love. If love is there, you will enjoy each other, no matter what other conditions are. In fact we have enjoyed and have had much quality time through out her pregnancy. We came closer and closer after each passing day and our baby has his share in improving more our quality of married life. He is just a sweet cute little baby boy. He never affected our relationship in negative terms.

When i do get married, i'd want my hubby and me to have an alone time regardless of how long we've been together prior to tying the knot.. it's just that, once you have kids around, it's never gonna be the same for the couple so better enjoy the togetherness first.. but i dont wanna wait that long also.. maybe a year or two would do.

well im not yet married but im going to answer anyway :) as soon as possible i really want to have a baby so that when she grows up im going to be still be able to help her with everything and im always going to be like a friend to my child :) i dont want to be an old mom in a way she wont think of me as cool

My husband and I conceived our son while on our 15 year wedding anniversary trip to Maui. However, we didn't exactly plan it that way. We did want to spend some time just the two of us, traveling and enjoying being young and having the things we enjoyed. After four or five years we started trying to have a baby and finally grew to believe that it just was not in our cards. Conceiving our son was a surprise but certainly no accident. We enjoy being older parent with more money and time on our hands.

I already passe that time and now planning for baby... hopefully everything will go well with me in this case....

I'm not married yet, but I do plan on getting married after I graduate from college. I won't have a baby until everything is stable. Meaning I have a reliable car, a house, and money to take care of the baby with. I'd say about 2 years after college I'll start thinking about having a child.

my hubby and i dated for 6 years before we got married. we didn't plan really plan for a baby. we had the 'let go and let God' attitude. after a year, i got pregnant. it was just good timing for us.

I'm getting married in May and we never intend to have any children at all. We just don't want that. Everyone's different and childfree is our choice.

i'm already a mother of one child..and i'm not prepared having this child it's not planned in other words..but i don't have regrets because i have a beautiful girl and a healthy one, thou she doesn't have a daddy..but if when the time that i will going to be married, i want to plan to have another child again, coz it's not that easy to raise a child..

I met my husband two years before we got engaged, then another year went by before we got married. We were ready to have a child as soon as we got married since we had been together for 3 years prior. We were married in June, my son was conceived in October and I had him the following year in July. We were so ready then!

My hubby and I never planned it. We got married Nov 1999 and i found out that I'm pregnant with my first daughter on August 2000. I think we do enjoy each other up to today..LOL...and children arrive so be it!

We actually didn't plan to have a baby until we're financially stable. But we had our baby after 2 yrs since we've married and it wasn't planned . But everything's ok though we're nt yet financially stable until nw. But I would suggest that you should enjoy each other's company first coz once you'll have a baby your attention would be divided.

Im planning to get married next year. I love kids, however id prefer to enjoy first with each others company before getting a baby. A year after the marriage prolly is enough to get ourselves ready in having a baby.