feeling down because someone u like talked trash about u behind ur back..
By diannebcrs
@diannebcrs (1549)
Philippines
July 4, 2007 4:00am CST
i came to school to meet up with my friend. funny, because she's giving me a somewhat pitiful mixed with frightened stare. i asked her about it - she was very hesitant to tell me what's going on.
during class, she spilled out something that really hurt my feelings.
while she was at the kiosk [place where we usually hangout], she overheard this guy whom i really liked for months now talked about me. well - this is the conversation she overheard:
"hey, is dianne [my name] really like that?" the guy said.
"like what?" asked a classmate of mine.
"i don't know. she's so out of this world.. i can't understand her, really.." the guy replied. "i really don't like her..."
i was, like, shocked at first. then i felt really devastated. it dawned on me why he's never spoken to me for months. he REALLY doesn't like me.. but i don't know why. it's not like i've done something to offend him before.. and he tells my classmates that he doesn't like me because i'm out of this world??? aw man, this really sucks you know... how can i go to class again, facing him and all, with the knowledge that the guy whom i liked for months and hoped that he'd notice me doesn't REALLY like me??
8 responses
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
4 Jul 07
hmm..cheer up k? can you think of anything that you might have done as to why that guy suddenly talked bad about u? does he know u? maybe he's just being judgemental, like most people :P do you know anyone who knows him? if you do then maybe you can find out why he said those things. if he doesn't know you or who you really are then it's just plain rude to say those things about you! it's his loss anyway, i'm sure there are much better guys out there. take care! :)
1 person likes this
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
5 Jul 07
The best advice I can offer to you on this matteris to move on. You simply cannot waste time thinking about people who are thinking/talking bad about you. The world is too busy and you need to stay psoitive and surround yourself with positive people. If they do not fit that bill...they are out! :)
cheers,
@vinney_143 (662)
• India
4 Jul 07
hey... that's the last thing one would ask for... when you believe someone and he hurts behind your back is something which i can't take any day. But, try to learn a new lesson from it and leave it and move on,eventhough it's quite tough.
@killahclaire (3665)
•
5 Jul 07
All boys are strange and never very good at expressing themselves. It could be that this boy does like you and he just doesn't know what to do with all these feelings.
When I was younger the tell tale sign that a boy fancied someone was that they talked bad about them. You really got to ask yourself hwy that boy was thinking about you.
Don't atek what he said too much to heart and I dont relaly mean to patronise you but how do you know you really like this boy when it seems like you hardly know him at all.
@ellysmile_b (77)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
Are you close to him or your relationship is only in "hi - hello" level? Don't take it too seriously, maybe he just said that because he doesn't really know you well enough. Try to distance yourself from him for a while. If he makes an effort to say hi to you, it's a sign that he's open with idea to be friends with you. Then maybe later you can ask him why he was able to say that he doesn't like you.
If he doesn't make any effort though, it's time to look for another guy to like :).
@mr_imi (34)
• Egypt
5 Jul 07
i can fell what u feel now.really it is bad feels .but there is some questions do u stay love him?do u stay want him come back? look if u saty like him. your like it is some thing u own. not he own .he talked trash about u . it is the end of the world u can face him and your classmates and know that he dont worth to know him. u will find some one better .
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
I never experienced that. But I understand how it feels. The person you love and admire and you hope that in return will see you and perhaps love you back doesnt like you at all. Worse you know that he tell his friends about it. Its really hard to face him again in your class but you have no choice at all.
The only thing that I could say is that you think why he hated you...and if you find no reason at all then you dont have to feel bad about yourself... maybe he sees you differently in the way he expected his friends to be... like maybe you're too simple... I dont know... I really dont know you.
But if you think youre not doing anything bad or harm to other people then there is nothing to worry about. You dont have to feel bad about yourself. You dont have to change yourself to please them or anybody.
If he does not like you then thats it... you can still love him even if he doesnt love you back until the time that you find the right person to love you and accept the love that you need.
