who should do the "breaking up"?
By _jajallena
@_jajallena (52)
Philippines
July 4, 2007 11:31am CST
should the girl or guy do the break up? i think it should come from both parties..yeah rite..in my dreams...but really..i think the guys should allow the girl to break the relationship..most guys i know at least do that...they start to show non-interest in the relationship, stop calling when they should, stop showing up in ur front door when they should, wait for the girl to get pissed and eventually break up with them for their lack of time and commitment for the relationship...i dunno..men say women are complex and difficult to understand..but so are men...its about meeting halfway..rite..watever lol..
4 responses
@Lady_Yeng (102)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
For me your first idea that it should meet half way is a better suggestion to those who are planning of breaking up with their relationship. it should be mutual and no one should claim who broke up first. if anyone feels unhealthy with the relationship confront him/her then if still doesnt work then End it without saying bad thoughts to the other.
@_jajallena (52)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
i totally agree..claiming who broke up first is way way immature and a display of lack of self esteem. (:
@animejosse (256)
• Sweden
4 Jul 07
Gender doesn't matter when it comes to things like this. If someone feels the relationship is going downhill and they can't fix it, they should break up. Of course, things are never that easy.
@_jajallena (52)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
true..its just that breaking up sucks..i wish they had a manual for that. :p
@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
Both party can sate their intention to be free...It would be unfair for the lady to be treated that way. For me, its better to let me know that you want out instead of showing me signs that you don't are anymore. Honesty is much better that being superficial.
