What if your guy/girl doesnt want to marry you?
By kcrysea
@kcrysea (195)
Philippines
July 5, 2007 11:34pm CST
After all the things that you and your bf/gf gone through. You've learned to love each other more but when it comes to marriage it seems like she/he's not interested.
Or you have plans of getting married but eventually one of them cancelled that special event for unexplainable reason. What could be the best way to deal with this one?
2 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
6 Jul 07
The best way to deal with this, I think, is not to get yourself bundled with him if he has no desire to get married unless you have the same idea. Let him stay single if he wants to. That's his life. There is no need to waste your own time and life on a guy who doesn't want to get married. I will never waste time like that. Thanks.
@kcrysea (195)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
Yes you have a good point. But girls sometimes are stupid enough to wait for that guy to change his mind. We cannot persuade someone to do things that he dont like. though its not easy specially if we loved that person so much, that will hurt... happy posting
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
9 Jul 07
I agree with you. That's why we say love is blind. I do hope the guy will be more considerate about the marriage when his gf mentions about it.
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
6 Jul 07
I think boys are more scared of marriages. To us, marriage means the end of our liberty as we have to shoulder more responsibilities and this is partly true. It also imply no more oogling at other girls.lol. We must all accept this fact that marriage is important and is the culmination of any love story and so give our relationship its due respect in the society.
