Still in love with the EX!
By Melissa528
@Melissa528 (744)
United States
8 responses
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Jul 07
some people hurt so much,they try to date other people to get over their ex.With me i would remain single for a bit if im still in love.
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@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Thanks Divachic. I agree. I would rather stay single then date other men if i'm still in love with someone. Personally, I think you are just playing with someone else's emotions when you do that.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Have you heard of rebound? That is what is going on here. The guy is in love with the ex, but is trying to forget so he is dating someone on the rebound. It isn't going to last~ very dangerous territory! Someone is going to get hurt and it won't be the guy.
@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Thanks for your response and I agree with you 100%. This is definately a rebound relationship.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Jul 07
I think so because even though im dating him his heart is still somewhere else.He could be thinking about her so much that he would compare me to her,say her name while making love ,just thinking about her 24/7. Then he might not be ready for dating and it might not work out because he is so unhappy.Last but not least he just might go back to his ex.
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Without question if he truly is still in love with her. He will have little love left to give to you. You are a nice to have around girl. Until he completely looses the love for her you can count on him not being there for you.
If you don't mind a casual relationship that may never go anywhere then this is it.
And don't count on him knowing this. He may feel consciously that he loves you and has gotten over her but don't be so sure.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
well, that's love.. you really would hope and expect that one day he's be afraid to lose you as much or more than how he didin't wanna lose his ex... but never over do it.. never expect too much coz that's what i'm suffering from right now... totally hurt and wanna die right now.. huhu..
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@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Thanks for your response! I also think it's impossible to move on with your life if you are still in love with your Ex but you cannot control your feelings. Sometimes it's better if you are NOT with your ex but the feelings just won't leave.
FYI: I'm NOT talking about myself here... Just incase anyone is wondering!
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Oh i kinda figured you weren't talking about yourself.
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@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
6 Jul 07
Definitely.
If he's still in love with his Ex, he really should not be dating or seeing other people. It wouldn't be fair to the person who he is seeing.
I would say it's best to leave this guy until he sorts his feelings out or decides to forget about his ex and gets over her. Please leave before you get hurt.
@SmokePiff (436)
• United States
6 Jul 07
not even goin answer ur question lol. no im not in love with my ex at all. i have no feelins for her at all. if she was to show up at my door i would have anything to say to her. just cuz i don't trust her.
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