What could possibly be the worst thing that your best friend could ever do to u?
By shemah
@shemah (840)
Malaysia
July 6, 2007 1:23pm CST
In my whole life, I have never had a falling out that bad that I could never forgive my best friend. Of course there have been "episodes" in my life where my best friend was unsatisfied with me because I kept some secrets from her. Things that she felt I didn't trust her with.. but I still maintain that whatever I choose to tell is my right.
Anyways, have you ever been mistreated or betrayed by someone very close and special to you (other than your significant other)? Even if you haven't, could you imagine what could that person possibly do to you that would make you never forgive him/her?
Do share.. I really appreciate your responses.. tHanks!
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@xkristalx (230)
• United States
6 Jul 07
I have been best friends with the same girl for 6 years. Of course there are times when we disagree, or when one of us does something to make the other upset. Obviously so far we have decided that our friendship is much more important to us than whatever little things arise. I think the only I would not be able to forgive her for is if she slept with my boyfriend. If she wrecked my car, or called me names, or said something bad about me I would be upset, but I would get over it. If she ever slept with my boyfriend I just don't think I could ever talk to her again.
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@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 07
Hi there kristal..
Thanks for your response. I really do think that it IF a best friend betrays you by sleeping with your significant other, that really is heartbreaking. It would be my worst nightmare too, if my best friend slept with my husband and took away my kids with them. I can't even bear to think about it.
@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
For now, I honestly cannot think of something cruel that my bestfriend can do to me. I will definitely can't stand the pain if something will happen to us like this. It's too painful to lose a friend.;(
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
8 Jul 07
Oh yes definitely! Some really bad luck when I was back in the university! Long story short, I had a really close friend (I would call her Ms A here) and we did everything together and we shared all our secrets together. Somehow I don't know why my intuition told me that she was talking about something not really nice behind my back. One day I got to hang around with another friend and she said, "oh you are really nice and you are not as bad as Ms A was suggesting..." and that's where all the investigation started on my side and it was a really hurtful experience to know that someone you trust so much actually twisted all your stories and share them with her friends and laughed so hard behind my back. I just "abandoned" her right there. I didn't tell her why and she had been calling all the time because she thought she was so clever that I wouldn't find out her bad side in my own life! I wouldn't even pick up her phone. I just completely ignored her and let her to live in her maze. I can't stand people not being sincere and spoil my trust like that!
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
7 Jul 07
One of my best ex-friends betrayed me in business matters over a year ago. And, she had no remorse either. It was as if she stole money directly from my pocket. I did some very generous business work for her, and she didn't bother trying to reimburse me in any way. She also never thanked me. I think that part hurt worse. Now, I try to keep my business and personal life seperate.
