My back prolems - surgery no 2 to come?
By mummymo
@mummymo (23706)
July 6, 2007 1:24pm CST
Well folks I just wanted to let my friends know what was happening instead of everyone having to ask me individually!
As most of my friends know I had back surgery a couple of months ago and was so excited as I had been waiting for it so long and really hoped it would fix out my pain and mobility problems! I seemed to be making progress, very slowly but progress nonetheless. That was until I was on holiday last week - The pain had been getting worse for days but I didn't want to ruin anyones holiday so I put a brave face on and tried to just rest until the wednesday night when I was stuck in one position for 3 hours and couldn't move - when my other half tried to move me it was agonisingly painful and he had to give up! Anyway the long and short is we had to get the dr out that night and again the next morning and I ended up on very strong painkillers again!
I went to see my consultant again today and on the way the pain of sitting in the car made me really sick, we were in roadworks and had nothing for me to be sick in - enough to say we had to stop at a nearby shopping mall and buy me a new pair of trousers! I now have to wait for yet another mri scan and the minimal risk of having to have another surgery has risen further! I may have to wait quite a few weeks for the scan and then wait to see what the consultant says so til then I have to rest a lot! Not total bed rest but not much more! The good news is that means I can spend a bit more time online speaking to all my wonderful friends! I am not looking for sympathy here - there are many people a lot worse off than me - I just wanted to let you know what is happening and that the pain will not rule my life! xx
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22 responses
@weemam (13372)
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7 Jul 07
you have gone through so much sweetheart , I have seen with my own eyes how much pain you have been in , and a wee bit sympathy wouldn't go wrong , I just hope and pray that it will be soon , Just take it easy and do what you are told , I pray for you every night sweetheart , Just take care ans you know where we are if you need us . Jim says he is feeling a we bit better today ,lets hope he keeps improving too . love you xxx
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@mummymo (23706)
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7 Jul 07
Oh wee I am so pleased that he is improving I have been worrying about my darling! Give him hugs from me but no nooky nind! lol Its funny - no matter how much I try to walk as normally as possible and hide the pain even total strangers say I look as though I am in agony! Thanks for the prayers sweets - they really are appreciated! hugs! xxx
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@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
7 Jul 07
I´m so sorry to hear you´re going through so much pain again, my dear friend.
I´ve been thinking about you a lot and how you´re holidays might be going. I haven´t been here for a while, the first mail I saw in my inbox was yours and I felt the urge to respond straight away. You are such a strong woman, I don´t know if I would have been capable to put a brave face on inspite of the agony. It´s truly admirable and you deserve all the sympathy you can get. I hope you´re not going to have to wait too long for the scan.
You´ve certainly got a very positive attitude. Even scientists openly admit now that this is extremely important or even decisive to help patients to recover.
Thanks for the update on your health.
My thoughts are with you.
A big hug for a tough woman.
XXX Dana
@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
8 Jul 07
I´ve missed you too, dearest. Haven´t been here because of some minor problems, nothing to worry about.
A positive outlook is important, I agree with you there. It can only help and your strength is an additional advantage :-)).
And there are lots of positive vibes being sent your way...
XXX Dana
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@mummymo (23706)
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8 Jul 07
Dana honey - I was about to send out a search party for you , I've missed you sweetheart! I am sure you would have been like me - I hate to see my kids get so upset and it is even worse if I am the cause! I do hope that you are right and the attitude helps - I believe that positive thinking helps a lot with everything! Thanks for being there for me yet again sweetheart , for the compliments and the support! Hugs to you too xxxx
@Melody1 (967)
• India
7 Jul 07
Mummymo,sorry to hear of the pain you are undergoing.you are very brave and continue being so.Seems like you've taken all this in your stride.With your kind of courage and optimism,nothing could go wrong.I truly wish for your full recovery without another surgery.Maybe a few weeks of physiotherapy will do wonders!From one optimist soul to another...'Wish you all the very bestfor your fast recovery'.xxx
@mummymo (23706)
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7 Jul 07
Melody good to see you honey! My specialist won't let me near a physiotherapist yet but who knows what will happen when I have had my scan results! Thank you for your support and kind words honey, those along with your good wishes make me feel so much better! xxx
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Thanks for the update, dear. I am so sorry to hear of all the pain you are having to go through. Of course you are not just wanting sympathy.... you are without a doubt one of the most upbeat, positive people I know, always making other's feel better. I hate that this is happening to you.
Please continue to keep us updated. Take it easy, my dear.
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@mummymo (23706)
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6 Jul 07
Oh honey - you are so kind - I always worry I am being a wuss but even my son says I am really brave so I have to start believing it!lol I guess it will be a little while before there are any updates but as long as I am not boring you I will be sure to update you when anything happens! Thanks again for being so supportive and such a great friend honey! xxxx
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
6 Jul 07
not bored at all. I want to know.
You ARE very brave. What a sweet son, to say that to you. Think of all the character building he is learning from watching you.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Jul 07
Oh, Mummymo, I feel so bad for you! I know what chronic pain is like (I have a knee disease). Having family there to help you out and make you feel better is the best medicine and it seems that you have that part covered. Keep that fighting spirit and you will be well again soon.
@mummymo (23706)
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7 Jul 07
Zuri my friend I am sorry that you too have to suffer chronic pain - I know that it is no fun - I hope that you too have a lot of support! My partner and 2 kids really do keep me going and help me so much - without them I think I might be in a different place mentally - I do thank God for them every day! Thanks again for the support honey , that helps me stay strong too! xxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
12 Jul 07
Sweetie whether there are People of worse then you or not is beside the Point again you are in Pain when you thought it would all be over soon, again you are facing a possible Surgery and you know I am hoping and praying for you that it is not necessary but if it is you know I will be with you xxx
@mummymo (23706)
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12 Jul 07
I know you are Angel - will you phone again if it comes to it? lol You know that meant a lot to me and really made my day - the nurse came in just after and asked why I was smiling so much! Seriously though the surgery was nowhere near as bad as I expected so if it does come to that again I know what to expect! Thank you for always being there for me and being supportive! xx
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@ItTakesAllSorts (4096)
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8 Jul 07
What a pain for you, having surgery and now the thought of it again!
I know so many people who suffer with their backs and it seems to be an on going problem. I hope they can sort it out for you without resorting to surgery again.
I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
Good luck mummymo x
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@ItTakesAllSorts (4096)
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8 Jul 07
You'll be swinging from the chandelier and jumping off the wardrobe in your Wonder Woman costume in no time!!!
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@mummymo (23706)
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8 Jul 07
So good to see you back again sweets, missed you and hope everything went well after all the procrastinating!
Thanks for the good wishes - I know a lot of people who have long term back problems too but I am hopeful that won't be the case - there are times I can't even stand up! I know it won't be the case - I AM going to get better! lol xxx
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@Calais (10893)
• Australia
6 Jul 07
OMG !!! You poor thing...I wish that this would all be fixed for you...Going through such pain all the time, how horrible..I envy you for being so strong especially for the kids on holidays. Im crossing my fingers for you and Im thinking of you always...Take it easy Mate.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
6 Jul 07
Thanks for the update mummymo, and please keep them coming. I'm so sorry to hear that you're in so much pain again, and about the problems while on vacation too. It's an awful thing to be trapped in a car like that, and to be so sick. There's nothing wrong with a little sympathy sometimes, as many people have no idea what a person's going through, unless it's happening to them, and 'then' they understand. Make sure you get plenty of rest too.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
7 Jul 07
I appreciate your friendship too, mummymo. I remember one time, I was out with a friend, and I had a terrible migraine. She was driving me home, and she couldn't pull off the highway, and I was so sick, and all over my new coat too. She finally pulled into a mall, and I was sick again in the parking lot ... how embarassing, and terrible at the same time. When this type of thing happens, there really is 'no place like home.' I'm glad to hear your family is spoiling you.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
7 Jul 07
Hi mummymo. I did read your first discussion regarding your back and sorry that you are still going through so much pain. You sound very strong and I hope in time or with the second surgery it gets better for you. Take care!
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@mummymo (23706)
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7 Jul 07
oh maddysmommy thank you for your kind words I do appreciate them! I remember being so excited cos I thought it would solve all my problems - even though I had been warned there were no guarantees! I am staying positive that if I need to have a second surgery it will help! xx
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
6 Jul 07
Honey,I'm so sorry that you are in pain.I know what that is and wish I could some how take it away for you.I know that my grandkids are helping so that you can lounge around..hehe...Sweetie keep us updated as you know what is happening.I love and miss ya
Mom
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@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
7 Jul 07
Dont lose hope, I know God is good and he will never leave you with that obstacles and trials that you are facing right now. Just keep going and move on. I know, it's just a test on how brave you are to face your challenge. God is there always for you. I hope you'll get better soon. Take care!
@mummymo (23706)
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7 Jul 07
Thank you so much braveheart I am sure you are right - I think it is my kids and my faith that keep me as strong and positive as I can be! I also believe that God doesn't give us any more pain than we can handle - so I have to just stay positive! Thanks for the encouragement - it does help! xxx
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 07
Hiya Sis, somehow, don't ask me how but I've got the internet back up and running, it's not ideal at the moment, until I change ISPs but it's temporary, missing you like crazy, backs are dodgy things and I hope you can get some respite soon I'd give you a hug but I know you are pretty fragile, thanks for keeping me informed and I hope I can give you the same support that you readily give me my beloved sis ;0)
@mummymo (23706)
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9 Jul 07
I screamed when I saw a response from you Wolfie my darling - the family came running as they thought I was in bad pain again! lol Then I said 'hang on it's not Tuesday is is'? - then they really started to worry! Never mind it keeps them on their toes! I am so pleased you are back online Sweets , I have been pining for you and it is so good to hear from you! I would risk a bit of pain for a hug from my favourite brother! As for support - you have always been there for me as much as I have for you and you know it - that's what family are for! I saw the doctor today (gp - not consultant) and he has given me a combination of 3 different painkillers - hopefully they will work , I am still waiting for them to kick in! Hugs to you my darling! xxxx
@Darkwing (21583)
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8 Jul 07
Thank you for the update, Mummymo. Let's just hope now that it puts itself right, with resting, and the second surgery won't be necessary. It must be quite painful just sitting at the computer for an hour.
Anyway, take care and lots of rest; I'll light a candle for you and let's see if with a bit of healing energy and positive thoughts, we can get you through this without more surgery. You've started well by saying that the pain will not rule your life! Brightest Blessings, love and hugs. xxx
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@Darkwing (21583)
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8 Jul 07
Yes, I did get your PM, my friend, but it didn't tell me all the details you have here, and there was one little hiccup where you said you'd given me your e-mail address and it wasn't there. I searched EVERYwhere for it... behind the computer, under the computer, under my chair, and my table! lol.
I'll send you mine in PM and then maybe you can send me a note, which will give me your e-mail address. Not blonde, are you? ha ha ha
Brightest Blessings, my friend. xxx
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@mummymo (23706)
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8 Jul 07
Oh Darkwing honey - did you get my pm? I have a real problem with sending those into cyberspace somehow! lol I can't sit at the computer - haven't been able to for quite a while - had to get a laptop so I could use it lying down - I #m just lazy really ! hee hee hee Thank you so much for everything you are doing for me - I will stay positive and hopefully with the help of you and my other lovely friends I may not need that 2nd surgery! Hugs xxx
@mummymo (23706)
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9 Jul 07
Niam just got a huge grin across her face and shouted 'Ms Tickle'when she saw your avatar! lol Thank you for the support and encouragement , it really helps keep me positive, which is the main thing! I am doing little else but resting - even if I could the family won't let me! When my partner is at work the kids do a great job of looking after me - I really am lucky! Hugs to you my wonderful friend! xxxx
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
10 Aug 07
Your attitude makes you great. I do also have some pain in my back and sometimes I cant endure it, I drink medicine, have it massage, put it some ointment but the pain still remain, I just dont think about it so often. I am fighting for it. Good luck and may the pain go away.
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@mummymo (23706)
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11 Aug 07
Well bagumbayan I am so sorry that you have this problem with your back - I do hope you can find some relief with it! In my casr I couldn't sit stand or walk properly because of it (still can't) and that is why I went through with the surgery. I am still hopeful that I will get better and I will pray that you get better too! Thank you very much for your best wishes and kind words xxx
@Robinsman (52)
• United States
9 Aug 07
Hello..I too have had back surgery (just one) it was back in 2003 and my back is still messed up..My doctor say's that there really isn't anything else that can be done at this point. I can't work.. I have tried, I can't sit very long, stand very long, or walk very far..
so getting a job that any of that will not affect is very hard. I have been denied S.S. disability for 4 years now and I nor the doctors can understand why. I have my opinion why...There are so many people getting disability out there that do not need it and as a result made it very hard for people that need it. It's a shame that you pay and pay into the system for years and can't get it. I got a pamplet one time that was titled "The guide to YOUR social security" I should have sent it back to them with the word "your" crossed out because it's clearly not mine..yes I paid into it but the way I see it it's everyone's but "mine"...OK sorry I had to vent..back to your surgery..let me know how it goes and good luck. Another thing I need to bring up...How long have you been doing mylot and how much do you get paid (not exact..just a ball park) the reason why I ask is I have just joined today..and love it. and how do you get "friends" on here. and also(gabby...I know) when you reply to a discussion does your mylot ID show?? Thanks for your time.
And good luck again
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