What would you like to change in your Partner?

@magnel (2263)
India
July 6, 2007 5:52pm CST
Many a times there has been situations where we don't like some of the habits of our partner and imagined if we can change their habit that we don't like. Would you like to change any habits in your partner? Have you done something like it in your past or planning to do it in future? Do share your thoughts?
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
If I can change my partner, I want him to remember my birthdays, and our anniversary. He always forget about the dates and I am very sad about this.
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magnel
@magnel (2263)
• India
28 Jul 07
Thats true, me too very bad in remembering the dates, but what I do is store the important dates in my cell phone that how I'm always able to remember, hope your husband can try that too...
fawcey
@fawcey (926)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
I have to say I would not change anything even his little habits that I at times may find annoying, as I love him for who is and to change one thing would be to change him and I love him for who he is.
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magnel
@magnel (2263)
• India
28 Jul 07
Thats the beauty of Love, thank you for such a wonderful response...
dcroome2005
@dcroome2005 (1210)
• United States
7 Jul 07
My husband had the same faults before I married him as he does now for the most part. The only thing I wish was for him to help me more around the house, support me a little more with my business and spend more time with me.
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magnel
@magnel (2263)
• India
28 Jul 07
Many husbands don't like to do the household work, but it is always good if both the wife and husband work together to experience a good family life.
Nykkee
@Nykkee (2522)
• Canada
7 Jul 07
If I could change one thing abou tmy husband I would make him more confidant. He underestimates himself alot. I believe that he has the ability to be a leader and to do really well at his work and to climb the corporate ladder, but he needs to believe in himself more. Everyone else sees it, they know that he is capable and he gets the offers for the good positions, but then he worries about his ability to do it and I think that he is really not giving himself enough credit. I blame his parents.
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magnel
@magnel (2263)
• India
28 Jul 07
No don't blame his parents. Its the experience that he has gone through which makes him less confident, and it becomes your duty as his better half, to revive the confident in him, All the best.