Do you easily forgive and forget?

It is not easy for me to forgive someone who has caused me pain. Most of the time I revenge by non-violence mode. On small matter only forgive. If someone tries to make me full, I leave such person for ever. I do not maintain relation with such foolish guy. I try not to make fool to other and also not to harm others by any means. I keep myself busy on my personal matter. I am introvert type so very rare chance of making fool to others. I avoid giving trouble to near and dear. If once accepted someone as a friend, I carry the relation.

I feel it is essential to forgive any wrong-doing as the only person that you are hurting is yourself, when you direct blame/hatred towards another. It is not always easy, but I think each of us should strive to forgive others - it doesn't mean that we have to have contact with them, just let is go, and feel less stressed. :-)

I'm pretty sure that most of us have been fooled or betrayed by someone/people. But when it comes to forgive-and-forget thought... I really don't know.. As for me, I can forgive - but I never forget. I think we should just be careful in trusting people..

yes i can forgive easily, its my weakness... i cant be mad for a very long time.

I forgive easily but never forget. To forgive is wise and just in heart, but to forget a lesson learned is to throw away experiance and knowledge earned. Ive had plently of lessons learned the hard way with people. And yes i have forgiven each one, even restored trust in some. But to forget what happend and what one learns from it is foolish. To forget the experiance is to forget the solution as well.

It is easy for me to forgive but not to forget. I have been through it many times before and although I have felt like I have been betrayed, I can’t find it in myself to “hate “that person. Within time, I begin to forgive although my heart still aches, I have been brought up in believing that the lord forgives us all fro our mistakes, thus is why we should be able to forgive others! Even when I forgive a person, I will not easily forget, there will always be a part of me that remembers the hardship and pain that I have endured. And although it is easy for me to accept that person back into my life, things would never be the same!

At first it is really hard for me to forgive because I get hurt. I believe the person I trust most will not do it but if she/he does then that's the time I really having a hard time to forgive but time heal wounds so as time pass by I still forgive the person but not easily forget what has happened. It takes a lot of time to forget since we are just humans.