Love mismatch...
By woodpecker
@woodpecker (7)
Indonesia
July 7, 2007 10:49am CST
I know like this one girl for 2 months and I kind'a love her, let's say her name is A. But I'm too afraid to admit it so I didn't say a word. I'm ended dating her friend, which I just knew for 2 months too. Let's say her name is B. My relationship with B wasn't going so well and we broke up after 12 months.
At the time I broke up with B, I still like A, so I'm trying to be as close as possible to A. But recently, my friend (he loves A too) told me that someone has prayed for him and she say that his soulmate is A (Yes, in my church, we do believe in soulmate). I don't know what to do, he's my best friend, and we're usually jokes 'bout our love for A.
What am I supposed to do? Should I letting her go? Or should I keep trying to building a relationship with A? I don't know, I believe in soulmate too, but in this situation....
4 responses
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
8 Jul 07
what situation? no but! make up your mind, if you really want her, fight for it. this is began with the word: "I'm too afraid to admit it so I didn't say a word". are you going to be afraid again this time?
if she love you too, she will not have the patient to wait until you make up your mind. i mean this is sound like foreveeer. Woman have limits you know. they grow old and have limit ages to savety pregnant time, ect. i can't believe you can stand to live "forever" in that unconditional situation. say you love her, see the result yes or no..., move on or look for another soulmate and let her go.
sorry for yelling at you, but i just can't believe what mans think sometimes.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
7 Jul 07
you are going to church and u believe in God, if so why don't give your soul mate to your friend Lord will a better soul mate than this.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
7 Jul 07
wow, love stuff huh?It is hard and you know that right?If you ended up dating her in the first place, then it might be a lot better but her friend???. I dont know about her but If I was her, I can't date my friend's ex. I dont know about what were you thinking. It might not too late to tell her how you feel, but you have to deal with your friend. If you dont want to make another mistake, you have to tell her and see what she says. You have to make a big step before your friend does. I know you dont want to hurt your friend but if you want to hurt yourself and let them have fun, then it is really up to you.
I might ask her out and then be more specific and show your emotion, make her feels that you are in love with her and tell her that you love her. If she asked you why you dated my friend insteat of her, then you have to get a good answer for her ok?. I dont know how to answer this, but you have to do it before your friend.
It is really up to her and not up to you and your friend, if she chooses you then your friend will understand. One more thing, you cant be ignore what your friend said... and you can't make any more joke about this love. I hope you can do it, and trust me; girl loves to hear what you are going to say and she has the right to know how you feel.
I wish you all the best.
