I have a problem and need some input please!

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Hey all! So here it is~I live in a small apt type place that is attached to a main house, and I am in the back and the front house is rented by a woman and her kids.Anyways the basement is open and shared (its for storage..) and she has a washer/dryer down there, that she is not willing to share which is fine. So she also has a front yard and I only have the back which is completly taken up with her kids toys and swingset...Now I am getting to one of the main problems in a moment. We are to SHARE the clothes line in our yard, and I now have a small apt size washer that hooks up to my sink but no dryer, so I really rely on the nice days to hang my laundry out on the line and I really only need 2 days a week to use the line (with good weather ofcourse) I do not drive and I am on disability becuz of back problems...) so its very hard for me to get to a laundry mat (which there isn't a close one) so spring, summer and fall I rely on the line to dry my clothes and other things...and when it rains I don't have a dryer to throw them in if the weather gets bad.But anyways my neighbor will put her laundry on the line at 6am and the same load will be there until about 5-6pm that nite when she gets home.And times where I put my things on the line minutes later they are gone bunched up in a corner all wet and her laundry is all of a suden up on the line.So time and time again I have tried to discuss this matter nicely to make things fair with her in using the clothes line (becuz this is such a un needed stress for both of us to have to deal with) but each conversation with her she says I have no right to use the line becuz she has kids and I don't.I try to explain my health, the fact that my laundry piles up in the winter sometimes until spring...but she doesn't care~I have asked her why she leaves the same load on there for hours when she could be getting more hung up there or I could be using it and she says she is not coming home when shes out just to take her load off the line.I even say I only need 2 days use of the line lets make a schedule...and she still says I have no right to use it bcuz of the amount of laundry she has to do.(reminder she has a washer/dryer even on bad weather days she can do her laundry and I can't) WHAT DO I DO???? start taking her laundry off the line like she does to mine? I am so sick of this unnessecary stress but she is impossible to deal with LOL! Does anyone have ANY comments/suggestions ANYTHING???? am I wrong to be upset about this?