Are promises made to be broken?

@neon2000 (2756)
Philippines
October 25, 2006 3:19am CST
I always make promises but always end up to be broken...and you?
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14 responses
@i_create (267)
• India
25 Oct 06
Promises are ment to be kept.. but often Broken..
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@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
It's true. I agree with you. They are meant to be kept but often broken... +
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
I just hope this time, I can keep my promises. :D
@lenith (1221)
• India
23 Nov 06
Promises are made to be broken and lies are meant to be kept. If you examine the above phrase you will find out that 9 out of 10 times it is true. Hence the saying broken promises. At this stage you might be tempted to ask the question what does this have to do with investing. If you bear with me, the answer will be provided to you shortly. Lets take the first part of the statement. Promises are made to be broken. First of all let’s examine the state one usually is when one makes a promise or vows to do something. 90% of the time one is in an emotional state of frustration, despair, anger and or in a euphoric state. What is the theme here, each of these states of emotion represents an extreme deviation from the norm, either an extreme positive or an extreme negative deviation from the mean. The first thing an investor learns after losing some money in the market is that doing anything based on emotion is a recipe for disaster. So following that principle is it not more then obvious that promises rather than lies will most likely be broken, as one did not sit down to logically evaluate all the information before making the promise.
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@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
You are categorically defining why promises are made to be broken. Yah, I agree that when you use emotion and expect from promises it is a total disaster when it has broken. You have your point and defend your answer, thanks for the response!
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 06
hmm.. not all but sometime i broken.. dont to much promise to everyone so you can enjoy your life..
• Indonesia
25 Oct 06
yes, istanto is right :)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 06
yes, istanto is right :)
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
I know how hard is it when you make promises and then just broke it. Thanks for your response! +
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
19 Nov 06
I never make promises that I do not keep. yes, I have had people make promises to me and they have not kept it is hard to believe what they say or do all the time. Some people make say that rules were meant to be broken and that seems to be true from everything I read in the papers and hear about.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
So sad people are like that. They don't know they are hurting feelings. Thanks for the response. +
@ladysun (635)
• United States
23 Nov 06
I do NOT make a promise I can not keep. My father instilled in me that my name is one of the most valueable assets I will ever possess...when people hear/know your name, do they associate it with someone who lies...cheats...steals..breaks their word....or do they hear your name and think...that is a good human being and you are well thought of and kown to be a person of character and true to your word
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Yes. Truely a man can be remembered in his good deeds and works. ANd curse for being bad person and citizen. One must not promise and then just broke it. Thanks for replying.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
Thanks for the response I mean!
@yogitha (1890)
• India
20 Nov 06
always make promises but always end up to be broken...and you?
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
22 Nov 06
It is bad you are making promises and always broken... thanks!
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
I sometimes do.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I never promise if I cant make it. And if I have no other option but to break, I feel terrible about it and I cant forget it for days. May be its a weakness. But I cant do otherwise.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
You have an excuse if you are breaking a promise otherwise your conscientious heart won't forget it. That's good.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
22 Nov 06
my promises are always, always kept. I make promises to show my word is trusted.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
23 Nov 06
I am glad o know you are trust worthy. Great! :D
@jzcb87 (1797)
• United States
20 Nov 06
No, they are made to be kept. Now rules though, now those are some things that are meant to be broken...
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
Thanks for replying.
@swarn47 (1706)
• India
20 Nov 06
This can be true about Politicians only and not for everyone.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
Politicians are not worthy to trust. Thanks for replying.
@sherzy (954)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
yes it applies to some and not to all. So don't expect too much, just wait what will it be.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
23 Nov 06
Hmmmn, don't expect when someone makes promises. Not bad. Thanks for replying.
@kishthedude (1320)
• India
4 Dec 06
They are only made to make other people feel confident
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Make promises to make them feel confident? I don't agree.
@michellle (160)
• China
10 Dec 06
if i make promise to someone .i will keep it .but i hardly make a promise to someone .
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
I do agree. Don't make promises when you can't keep it. Good you do not always makes promises.
@shaf001 (180)
• India
9 Dec 06
Same thing happens to me and ihope hat n the future i keep my promise.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
That's good. It's bad hurting people because they expect your promise.