How will you react when you hurt people unknowlingly?

India
July 9, 2007 2:45am CST
what and how will be your reactions when you hurt people unknowingly? Suppose a person no matter he is the closest one or just an acquintance that you poured out a frustration onto them of which no fault of theirs. They stay stunned by your reactions because no time was given to evaluate your state of mind, how will your reactions will be?I'll immediately come down because my outlet is served, now the tension is less, but i will sincerely regret and will apologise immediately and will see to that they feel light by my sincere apology and will explain my reactions due to the state of mind i was in. How would you react?
2 responses
@miaolin (397)
• China
9 Jul 07
Of course,I will apologize to the person sincerely and explain to the person my reason and hope the person can forgive me.I think everyone will do so unless he or she is unconscient and unpolite from inside.If I were in such situation,I would be much embarrassed.To say sorry and escape this place.It's impossilbe for me to stay any longer.I'm shy girl.LOL
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
Well... let me think. This must be very tough. At first when I knew about it I would be feel very guilty. This is because I didn't mean to hurt her feelings. But after a while I will start thinking about other things. I shouldn't feel guilty, and maybe the person is just being over sensitive about it! If I have the chance, I would confront the person and ask her why was she hurt by my words, and why didn't she tell me herself? Why must I hear this from another person? This is not fair to me!