boyfriend can't drive

Indonesia
July 9, 2007 5:26am CST
i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. i love him just the way he is. because he's funny,caring and really can understand me. but there's one thing i cannot really understand. he cannot drive a car. I mean haloooooooo...he's 30 years old!! what do you think about this situation? i mean normally men always drive his girlfriend when we're going together. sometimes this situation stressing me and makes me wondering..what's your opinion bout this?
4 responses
• United States
23 Jul 07
I have kind of a similar situation myself. My boyfriend is 20 and has been driving for several years. I have to admit he has gotten better but his roadrage just scares the heck out of me. He's a terrible driver, and when he messes up, he immediately blames the driver nearest him. He'll honk his horn, curse, and fling up his hands. It's so embarrassing! Other than that, he's a great caring boyfriend that just CAN't drive!
@prily9 (568)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 07
hi I 've been there before. my second boyfriend can not drive also, so I'm the one who had drive.I don't mind but when I felt so tired that time I really wish that he could drive. and my uncle can't drive also. so my aunty, the one who always drive ( my uncle is 55 years old now ). I guess it doesn't matter as long you both could understand each other. I think it's easier to have boyfriend who can drive than have boyfriend who can understand you. so I guess stay cool, don't take it seriously.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
23 Jul 07
Well just suggest that he takes a driver's education class and you can help him learn how to drive.He might enjoy taking the class. Does he have a car? Maybe he's not motivated to drive if he does not have a car.
@anjrit (997)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 07
Come on nutea,will you loose your beloved boy just by this problem.I thinks this isn't a big problem.don't make this problem as a serious matter that make you stressed.see the positive things elthough very little to see