What will yoy prefer love marriage or arrenge marriage
@subhashreerath (785)
India
5 responses
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
26 Oct 06
I choose marriage out of love, when it's arranged you most likely hardly know the person and you have to spend the rest of your life with them. It becomes more of a bussinessdeal, and I personally dislike that idea.
I think arranged marriages nowadays are more of tradition than people actually liking it.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
26 Oct 06
I think you are right, traditions are considered important and I do understand why people want to keep traditions to enrich and experience their culture. On the other hand, I'd say we live in the 21th century and we can still have our traditions and believes, but 'update' them to our time.
How do you feel about this?
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
ya i agree with u. but its a team work. a single person can't change any tradition. to change this tradition every body should be convinced and should come forward.
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
now a days every one want love marraige but still no one comes forward to stop this tradition.still people are sacrifishing their love for this tradition.
@nikmahajan (188)
• India
25 Oct 06
it solely depends on the condition you are in. If you beleive in love marriage no power in the world can seperate you from your mate.
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
if don't have that much of courage then u should not love any body
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
means u'll prefer arrange marriage.
can u stay with an unknown person?
@Tamihall (88)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Obviously I would prefer to a love marriage. But, my hubby and I got married not knowing each other. It wasn't arranged but we didn't know each other. We have had to take the time to get to know each other and sort of learn to love each other when normally, that part is done during dating. I wouldn't recommend it, it has been really hard!
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
i want that the tradition of arranged marriage should be changed. there should not be any restrictions for love marriage.
@subhashreerath (785)
• India
26 Oct 06
90% people are prefering love marraige then why the tradition is still there for arrange marriage
