Cheating?!?

ok maybe I should explain a little on my end too though. My wife and I have been fighting day in and day out for the past two years... we have tried talking and it helps for a few days and then we go right back to fighting again. she won't do any counseling and we really don't have a relationship besides the kids. I know that if it went far enough for me to cheat, I would let my wife know and we would seperate but I guess i am wondering that if I go out with my freind to keep her company, should I worry that much? i dunno, i guess im just confused right now.

Well then, my friend, I suppose after two years of fighting and a not so good relationship and no chance of her going to a counselor, (insert deep breath here) it might possibly be time to make some really tough decisions. To stay, to part company, to cheat, to find a path that works for you. Fighting for two years is not healthy for you or the children watching this behavior. But I am sure you know that. It would be wise to see a counselor for yourself and for your children, either together or separately. Ask yourself why you are staying in an unhealthy relationship. You will be a better friend to your friend when you understand yourself a little better. Good luck and best wishes for you and your family.