Would u accept a girl who had live-in relationship with a guy for 3 years?????

July 9, 2007 12:13pm CST
I had a friend(gal) who had a live-in relationship with my another friend(guy). They had this relationship for a period of 3 years. Now the guy wants to break bcoz there are not goin well. In thz case wht this gal should do, who had this relationship for 3 years. Now whether the society will accept her. Now she is left alone. Wat are ur suggestions to my friend. What she needs to do now???
3 responses
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
9 Jul 07
What she needs to do? Nothing. This all form part of life and we all have to accept it. If their realtionship has not worked it does not imply that she should remain spinster the rest of her life. This world is so huge and im sure she will meet a better guy who will love her immensely and overlook her past. Let the bygones be bygones and its no use of crying over spilt milk now. Why the hell shall we care about the society? If they accept her its good and if they dont its better. From ny point of view she has done nothing wrong and has complete right to lead a respectful life
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
what i can tell your friend is, it's not the end of the world. things do happen. nothing in this world is permanent, only constant change. and in a relationship if it's not working out why stay in it. only worse would happen if you insist on it. i know it would be hard to make a new start from a long relationship. what she should do is take a rest, a breather. take it one day at a time. take it slowly. mingle slowly with her friends and co-workers. once she feels she's ready for the world, try dating or simply a friendly date for starters. from there pick-up the pieces and make a new start. i know at first it's painful and frustrating. she'd feel that no one would take her anymore, that's NOT TRUE!!! that's not true love for her. if true love comes, she won't even know it. so from now on be careful and analyze the relationship. what went wrong? what must she do next time? GOOD LUCK to your friend!!!
@babostwick (2036)
• United States
9 Jul 07
I could depending on how she is as a person. That's just what I would do. I never worry about what society thinks or does exactly. I just do what I feel is the right thing to do at the time. I'd probably confort her and make her confortable but that's just how I do things.