"Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened."

That is a good point and there is something postive or a lesson out of everything that is negitive or at least in my life.

That's nice. I'm feeling so bad and down today. your discussion is very enlightening. I hope I can do that in my situation. You know the previous company I worked before I owe me quite a money yet refused to give it to me. I am very down because I need it. I dont know what to do, but your words enlightened me.

Yes, a failure means survive, and of course getting hurt is an experience, experience for us to grow and learn the lesson from it, but we have to accept the fact that whatever things we do just to cope up into the failure or pain we are experiencing still it is hard, easy to say the word but hard to act. But you are right we have to smile in the end because it happened to us and we learn from it.

i think when things happen to us we naturally feel pain hurt sadness anger among other emotions we must grieve for any loss we encounter be it surgery a loved one etc., job loss etc. we will never get over it just through it --it will be there but we go on --we can then put ourselves perhaps in someone else's shoes --and perhaps can understand them somewhat i suppose when all is said and done you do become stronger and learn from what has occurred but sometimes we don't understand why- why not -i must make myself stay positive irregardless inspite of all of this

Hello jcvernz, Yes I agree with you. Don't worry be happy as the song goes. If we are hurt and have fallen, get up learned from the experienced for tomorrows another day. Its all part of life's experience so we shouldn't worry but be happy for we are still alive. :-)