how do u deal with insensitive people?

hi! first i want to know how you can have your name as cranky a.s.s and mylot won't let me say that word in one of my other discussions!!!! that should be a discussion in itself! anyway........... all you have to think is that do you REALLY want to spend (what could be the rest) of your life with an insensitive guy? i know you probably think you do now because you love him....but it could cause more heartbreak if he stays that way.......

If you are sure you love him,why don't you more active? Hope you will have a good luck! Come on!!

How can you love..someone..who you know is insensitive? For falling in love, we should be of vary caring and understanding nature...and one should be very sensitive towards the other guy. You please check again...whether the guy you are referring to...is indeed insensitive or something else?

uh-oh. if it's an insensitive friend, then it's probably not such a big deal. but if it's your lover? hmm...does he know that he's insensitive? what made you love him in the first place, even though you know that he's insensitive? if you really love him then perhaps you would be able to bear it and maybe some day make him realize how insensitive he is and hopefully he would realize and change some of his ways. does it make you miserable? if you're unhappy in this relationship, then maybe it's better to let it go before you get hurt even more. but if you really love the guy, then go ahead. love makes you do crazy things after all:) take care and hope that everything will work out sooner or later!