How can we make our love go stronger if???

Most of us desire a perfect situation, a perfect life! Yet, our LOrd do not grant a perfect life. What He give instead is a perfect heart in the midst of an imperfect life! Be cheerful, hopeful, smile amidst imperfections and enjoy the wonderous blessings(your daughter) in every moment in time...God Bless you!

well its just sad that u have to get married just because our pregnant...but nevertheless, i dont think that should really be a big threat to your relationship. in the first place, you are supposed to be in love right. maybe the factor that is really affecting your marriage right now is the fact that urboth not ready to get married at all. you just have to remember that we fall in love with a person because of the good qualities right. but u have to love him more because of his bad qualities. so just stay on and enjoy your time with ur kids.

Im in your predictament and it's sad it's like a chapter in my book we are on off we presently talking im trying to stop holding things in my mind.

As they say, "it takes two to tango". If you love him and you really want to make your love go stronger, you need to have a bit more patience with the mistakes that he commits everynow and then. Look beyond those mistakes... were they done purposely to hurt you or make you angry? On the other hand, he needs to know his priorities. Who is important to him, you and your daughter, or his friends? Being a husband, he needs to put into primary consideration the feelings of his wife and the needs of his family before he makes decisions like lending his needy friends money. Oh yes, a friend in need is a friend indeed, but definitely not at the expense of the family. I'm not a perfect person myself, I also sometimes make mistakes that hurt my partner, and so does he, every now and then. We do argue too, sometimes, but nothing like a sincere "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you by doing this" can make us love each other all over again. Forgive him for his mistakes, nobody is perfect. Love him the way you loved him the first time you met him.. maybe somehow things will be better between the two of you. Good luck!

hi patricia. i am too young to comment on your situation now but i truely believe in love. so to say there might be many differences between you but if theres love then sooner or later you understand each other. maybe your husband had given money to his friend due to an obligation or it was necessary. i am sure no guy would give away money kept for daughter and i am equally sure that if cares for her, he would be thinking of alternatives to combat the situation. i am really sorry that you are getting worried but hope it will end soon. and yes be chill and try being softer or show him the love. dont get angry on him for it will take some time to settle and let him know too.

I suggest you just spend say an hour? half an hour atleast a day listening to what each of you has done in the day - or what interests you have. And maybe note down what things your partner likes or doesnt mind. Decide to have more family days where you go out and do something you BOTH would enjoy, and be willing to comprimise. You shouldnt change for anyone but if you really love each other you will atleast change to a certain extent. He obviously married you because he loves you, and he must love alot of things about you. Find out what they are. Etc. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you! :)