How many "Best Response" have you got? Do you treasure them?(",)

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@lani0529 (1722)
Philippines
July 10, 2007 10:51am CST
Hello everyone!(",) Isn't it nice to be rewarded for something we've done here in mylot? That's why I really appreciate those people who gave me the pen icon. How about you? What is your opinion about the "best response" feature here in mylot?So far, I have 38 "best responses". I got my first ever award from earth2jacq.(",) Thank you to all who have been generous and given me the pen icon!(",)
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I have 463 best responses thats over a 9month period. I'm grateful to recieve bestresponse.I believe they also help your rating.:)
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
10 Jul 07
Hello disvachic!(",) With your number of posts its not surprising that you have so many best responses. I wonder if other mylot members still count their best responses when its too many already? You must be a really best writer for people to give you the best response. How I wish that I'll be able to reach as many best responses as you have someday. Good going and thanks for sharing!(",)
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
10 Jul 07
YOu're welcome:)i just did the math 10 discussions on each pageX's number of pages.Take care.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
15 Sep 07
Well Lanie this thing i am listening or seeing first time i dont have any PEN ICON in my profile may be they thought i am not using PEN LOL Take care
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
Hello cupid!(",)You guessed the right spelling of my name and I'm kinda surprised since I'm using my name without an "e". Take it from everlasting, she's right! So, why don't you check it out and tell us how many have you got.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
Hey cupid, I checked out your profile and it shows that you have 3 best responses already. Congratulations!(",) Keep on making quality posts!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
17 Sep 07
Hi Everlasting and Lanie, First of all thanks for responding to me and guiding me right path to find out, I also glad that i check my profile and found out that i had 3 best pesponse, which is encouraging i think i have to take my initial statement back and want to repharase " HEy Friends i got 3 and thanks to those who though them as best" And i know Lani is not a know it must be Lanie as u pronounce it so i added "e" myself. i hope u dont mind Take care both of u friends Zass
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@Mitraa (3184)
• India
15 Sep 07
So far upto this date, I have sixty-two times best responded by my friends and associates of myLot. I am very mauh thankful to them all. I hope, I shall be equally able in future to respond well to every preferred discussions that I come across. All the best responses are my treasures of myLot activities. I always care for them in the usual process of my composing them. I think we should be always careful for a best response in our every response that we post. This will certainly improve the response quality and make our postings more useful for all persons in myLot! Thank you for this nice topic.
• United States
15 Sep 07
I didn't get a "best response" yet. I am trying to make post in high quality to get pen icon. If I can get a pen icon from the friends, I will give them lots of thanks and reply his discuss more often than others, I will check his very discusses frequently and try to put some thing to his discusses. By the way, do you know how to find the number of best response we get? I will get email from mylot when we get a pen icon?
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
21 Jul 07
Hello lani0529! I really appreciate when someone selects and gives best response to a deserving responder. It doesn't matter if it's me or someone else, because what I like is that the poster of the discussion took his/her time to acknowledge the efforts of respondents. It just shows that he/she has probably read the responses and have selected with some criteria, whatever that criteria may be. I am really annoyed when the poster starts a discussion and do not get involved with the responders, thus wasting the purpose of this forum. I also have a little dislike for the people who do not acknowledge the efforts of others by not selecting a best response. I always feel good when my response is selected as best response because it's an indication that my response was of some help or did provide some useful information or was something required. This very feeling gives me pleasure. So far I have only just over 150 best responses. After 100 it becomes difficult to count, so I have marked where my 100th was and I now count onwards. There are many discussions that I responded to which are still unresolved, I don't know how many I'll be getting from them, if any! I wish you and all best of luck for your experience here!:-)
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Hello kamran!(",) I like your avatar because it's like saying "take my hand". It can be a sign of welcome or help. It's really nice!(",) You have so many best responses already and still counting. It only shows that you have been really helpful and informative to the other mylot members. Keep it up! Thank you for dropping by and sharing your thoughts with us!(",) Take care always and have a great day!
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
22 Jul 07
Hi lani0529!:-) "I like your avatar because it's like saying "take my hand". It can be a sign of welcome or help. It's really nice!(",)" That was exactly the reason why it got my attention and hence the selction. There were other similar reasons too:-) I only hope that I have been helpful and informative. It's actually the greatness of the posters that they accept my humble opinions. I wish you the best and thanks for the kind words, same to you:-)
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
You are very much welcome!(",) Have a great day and may God continue to bless you!(",)
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
14 Jul 07
I've got 14 best responses... every best response is a confirmation of me value:P... I mean they are good for the moral... but also I think that they shouldn't be offered to easy... is a nice thing... but also a valuable thing;)
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hello Dan!(",) Thank you for dropping by and sharing your thoughts. Yes, its very true that giving "best response" should be given with care and should not be given that easy. It needs alot of thinking because it's something to be cherished. Have a great day!(",)
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Yes you are right! Somehow, you will feel if the person is sincere in writing his/her views. Emotional attachment to that response really can affect one's decision of giving the best response.(",)
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
14 Jul 07
well... yes... but thinking to much could take time... it's also ok to give an best response based on the emotions that he provokes ;)
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• China
30 Jul 07
i got 0 "best response"~~i din't type more enough character because of my bad English
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Hello zhengdafeng!(",) Sorry to hear about your bad English but don't you worry because here in mylot, you will be able to practice and better your English. Hope that sooner you will be awarded with your first ever best response.(",) Thank you for sharing!(",) Keep on postings!
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
For being honest and for trying your best to participate in the discussions, I will award you your first-ever "best response". Congratulations!(",) Stay here and continue postings!(",)
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
Hello mesmerized!(",) It's such a nice feeling to make others happy.(",) Great day!(",)
@AmbiePam (92359)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I'm not bragging, but I have too many to count. I think it is just because I've done a lot of posting. I know a lot of people have way more than I. I think it is neat to see which of my posts have been helpful to others, yes.
@AmbiePam (92359)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I wish! I think it is just because I've been here a while, and they add up.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hello AmbiePam!(",) Your too many to count "best response" only show that you've been very helpful to other mylot members. Keep it up!(",)
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@naadia (828)
• India
31 Jul 07
honestly i dont get many 'best response' so i dont expect any.i just love to reply even if the user already selected a best response.but i feel good when i see my response selected as best response,and i will message user 'a thank you'!i am not here to achieve many best response since i know my potential.i am little weak in english and there are many talented,really talented peopel in mylot.so they deserves a best response.so no bad feeling,but happy when i got one! i always try to resolve my discussion within a week .sometime i am confused to whom we have to give best response.sometime 80% are very good response!
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
Hello naadia!(",) Like you, I also reply even if the user already selected a best response because the main reason that I joined in the discussion is not because I wanted to be selected as the best response but because I wanted to share my views. I know others select best response by having a good grammar but for me, the content matters more than a good grammar. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Have a great day!(",)
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
7 Aug 07
I've got about 34. Not bad for someone with 800+ posts i guess! haha. yes it's encouraging to have this rating system. we all thrive on affirmation. I am really pleased with my star rating now and it gave me a happy smile on my face for the rest of the day.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
Hello squaretile!(",) 43 best responses is good enough! Keep it up and keep on smiling! Great day and God bless!(",)
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
19 Sep 07
Hi Lani I had got only one and only one that from my friend Mr. Michael. It more than a precious for me. Also I never thought that respond would be given such a dignity.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Hello sham!(",) It's okay, your one best response is indeed very meaningful to you, right? Having best response is a motivation to do better but in your case, I think you are more than motivated here in mylot. I do believe that you love it here and that you gained more friends and that's the most important than best response. Great day!(",)
@060157 (1059)
• Pakistan
19 Sep 07
i have only 3 best responses :D but tahts because i am new to mylot but do have a feeling that people dont really select a best response most of the time.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
Hello 060157!(",) It's okay because as you go on posting, you'll receive more best responses. I also noticed that some of the members haven't selected a best response even if their discussion have been running for months already. Keep on posting and have a great day!(",)
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
19 Sep 07
Hello Lani(",) what is this (",)? Why you use it so much ? Anyway, i have 17 BRs, i think, it was 17 when i checked recently. I treasure them for sure, i do think i truly deserve the BR in all of the discussions where i've been awarded the BR. I think BRs really boost us to give our best shot. It is one of the features i love in myLot. The negative side of it is, some users might give sugar-coated or false responses just to bag the "best response", but still i prefer to have "best response" feature in mylot. Its a proud feeling when you win it. We all need something to get inspired from, "best response" is acting as an inspiring and motivating factor in myLot. Thank you (",)
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Hello there!(",) It's a smiley!(",) It's my trademark that's why I'm using it so much. In that way others you read my response and discussions will never forget to smile when they see this sign. It means that I am always happy and gay. You are right! This feature sure motivates us to make quality posts. It's one way of encouraging us to do better and enhance our topics and alot more. Congratulations to your increasing number of Best Responses. Keep it up! Great day and God bless!(",)
@dimaks (786)
• Japan
2 Aug 07
i still don't have those pen icons on my name, maybe you can award me some? hehe. well, first of all it's really up to the discussion starter on which response is best. but then, i think considerable time as to be considered first before making the choice. as we know, this is a discussion based thing and future responses may still along the way. who knows, better response can come along and they will be denied of the deserved award. just my cent :) good day!
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
Hello dimaks!(",) I'm sorry but I have already given the best response award for this discussion. You have a point about the time frame for selecting the best response but still it depends upon the one who started the discussion. Like me, I used to select the best response after a week or so because I don't like to have an unresolved discussion running for months. Hopefully, next time that I will start a new discussion, you'll be able to answer it before I will give the best response. Take care and God bless!(",)
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
Hi lani! :) Getting 38 best responses is really "WOoooW!" Hehe.. You're doing great here in myLot!(",) Hmmm... lemme check mine. Oh weeee! I got 5 best responses. WOW! :) *hehe* Yes, it does feel great that people acknowledge your post and appreciate it. :) It really feels great! :) Take care and God bless! :)
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
Hello!(",) For the record my best responses increased to 40+, many thanks to those who awarded me as best response. Yipee!(",) Keep it up! It does feel great being awarded as best response!(",) Thanks for sharing. Take care as well and God bless!(",)
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
That's what I always feel when I get to receive a "best response" from my fellow posters, I'm thankful and happy that they do appreciate my "honest" opinion. I believe that these feature was provided by mylot, for us to enjoy and have a boost in posting here. Give our best opinions, contribute relevant topics and views, and also to provide information to the subject that was being discussed. My own way of thanking is, by giving them a (+) ratings on the discussion topic they've made..
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hello raijin!(",) For sure, you have so many best responses already because you are good in expressing yourself into writing. Me personally, I often rate my friends and those who answer my discussion positively. Thank you for sharing your view! Have a great day and God bless always!(",)
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
Hello lani. I seriously never bothered to count on the number of best responses I received. Indeed, seeing them piling up helps us to stay motivated. Somehow, it also boost our ego knowing our opinions and views are well appreciated. Keep going and you may very well received more awards, lol!
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hi charms!(",) Thank you for sharing! Yes, you are right, let us keep on answering discussions and make the best to continue receiving best response. For sure you have so many best response because you participated in so many discussions.(",) Keep it up! Have a great day and God bless!
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
10 Jul 07
I have about 15 best responses. I can consider it a lot because I don't really answer many questions. I really like when people do it because it means they like what I'm doing. I always try to do my best.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hello martinha!(",) Indeed having 15 best responses is good enough! Keep it up! I do hope that you will continue answering posts and participating in the discussion. Thank you for sharing!(",)
@morgandrake (2136)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I only got eleven. I have never really paid much attention to how many I have because I am too busy having fun here.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
Hello morgandrake!(",) It's okay if you got only 11 what's important is that you are enjoying and having a great time! Thanks for dropping by and sharing your view!(",)
@dbhattji (2506)
• India
11 Jul 07
yes, i would also like to thank all who have given me best response but I think it is not allowed, so I am thanking them through this reply. It is indeed nice to be appreciated.
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@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Hello there!(",) Have you read in the guideline that it is not allowed? I don't think so. You can thank your friend and you can add comments in their home page. That would be so sweet.(",) Have a great day!(",)