Have you ever been betrayed by your friends?
By jade1986
@jade1986 (563)
India
July 10, 2007 9:11pm CST
Have your friends ever betrayed you? How does it feel? It is a very sinking and painful and hurting feeling that come into our mind... It really feels very bad. The people on whom we put so much of our trust and when they forget to keep up our faith in them, it feels really bad, neglected and dejected. What would you do in such a situation?
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3 responses
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
11 Jul 07
I had this happened many times in the past, so after high school I realized that why care about others if they don't care about me? and if there is any of my friends who 'change' either change personality or change friends and leave us, I wouldn't sweat it, I'll get another. No more drama, pointing fingers etc. I know what happened and if they blamed me, no biggie, I have enough close friends and family that won't believe any accusations from so-called friends. don't worry about, jade. life goes on, with or without them. do what's important for your future.
@arielle_jc (51)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
hope you could share the details of your problem to me.although i believe right now you are experiencing a crisis on trusting but still i am hoping.
as for the moment, i just want you to face reality by facing the pain that it causes you. we cannot discount betrayal it is part of one's life. historically, we could prove that, much of that failures are rooted in betrayal.remember, joan of arc, the spartans, andres bonifacio and JESUS CHRIST.
betrayal is not new after all. it has been occurring since the beginning of time. God was betrayed by Adam and Eve right? so what's my point here? since betrayal is not new we must face it and we must deal with it properly, meaning with wisdom.
betrayal is painful but the only cure is forgiveness. it is not that easy i don't discount that but it definitely a peace-giving act.
May you find comfort in God.
God bless!!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
11 Jul 07
Being betrayed by a friend is the worst sort of betrayal because friends stick together and the one person you feel you can trust is a good friend. I was betrayed a few years ago by my very best best friend who was more like a sister to me, before this happened I was a very trusting person maybe too much but it just took this betrayal to turn me into someone who no longer can trust anyone 100%, I hate not being able to trust but when you think if your very best friend can do this then anyone can, I just do not trust anymore just because of one persons action, I fee in way my friend destroyed something in me that was beautiful....
