is it wrong for a girl to be more dominant than her boyfriend/husband?

love partner - husband and wife or a boyfriend and girlfriend
Philippines
July 10, 2007 10:17pm CST
in my opinion, i think it's not good that girls are more dominant than their boyfriend or husband. sometimes i'm being dominant than my husband but i swear i don't want to be like that, maybe it's because there are some situations bringing me to that kind of attitude. for my husband, i'm sorry if sometimes i'm being like that, i dont mean it. hope he understand me.
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• Philippines
11 Jul 07
well you know, im used to my wife being dominant in our home, i liked it anyway, specially when it comes to handling finances. she is good at it and i liked her for that. dont regret my friend because in the end, your husband will understand. i remembered a funny story posted here in mylot about an argument of wife and husband as to who will serve coffee, the wife said it is the husband according to the new testament. the husband was surprised and asked her where in the bible did she finds that husband is obliged to serve coffee to the wife. the wife retorted "HEBREWS" :-). Smile my friend, its a good day today...
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
yes, you did it,you made me smile with your post bosing! hahah! nice joke huh! you know i'm very much agree with you that the wife is beter than husband when it comes to finance (budget) this is our forte. but i'm wondering my friend, don't you feel "under" (it's the common term here in our country,lol!)when your wife is being dominant than you?
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
nope, i dont mind and im very famous at my office, they call me bossing but i have a "general" in my house... anyways, as i have said, i really and honestly liked a wife with strong personality because i am the submissive type! hahahaha! good day my friend...
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
hahahaha! very nice bossing! you always made me salute for you!
@kudeshi (529)
• India
13 Jul 07
In my opinion a wife can dominate if she is good in a particular field. There's nothing wrong in that. In my case my wife has her say in how to bring up our son. She is with our son most of the time since, i am busy with my office work. So in this case my wife has more say than me and i accept it. :)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
you really have a point, thanks! regards to your wife..