divorce hurt ?

I have not been married yet so I don't know if it hurt so much, but I guess it hurt for the one that actually still in love.

My husband was divorce from his first marriage. He told me its not easy because it hurt a lot. It take a long time to heal and find ways to recover. He almost kill himself long time ago. His ex wife have an affair to other man thats why he was hurt. He is a very nice person i cant imagine why his first marriage fell apart. But it take a long time to heal a broken hurt and others dont want to marry again just like his friend.

Divorce may not hurt I think. After divorce we can choose the best one we like. some timems it may be a help to us. so there is no question of how or how long.