I need Tips on How to Deal with Hateful inlaws plz

@eashoor (307)
Canada
July 11, 2007 9:10am CST
Here is the situation: I am a Saudi muslim woman who quit medicine 9 months ago. I met my now husband about 12 months ago and we got married 4 months ago.He is Canadian and his family does not like me because they think I am using him for immigration and they do not respect my decision to have quit medicine. They think I am selfish and since I became pregnant with our first child it has made them even more unhappy. We are going down to their cottage for a family picnic on the 15th of July and I am not sure what to do anymore.
1 response
edigital
@edigital (2709)
• United States
15 Jul 07
15 July already over - I do not know what was happened to you but I think your husband family is rich than your family for which they cannot accept your marriage with their son. My Tips is that if you husband love you and never unhappy marrying you then no problem because after marriage your husband not bound to abide by all hard decision of his family. Though as a Muslim girl you should respect all members of your husband's family, you can gift them what they love, you should not hinder your husband's wish if he want to help them financially. If your husband's family member do not love you as you expect from them though you should keep on them glad and show them that you are ideal wife and not a greedy for immigration. Once a child will come to your house, they will gradually start to love you on the plea of the new baby. Whatever, you should be thrifty to spend and be habituated for savings for your own future as some time out-country marriage do not stay longer if guy is a loafer or selfish and marriange a out country woman for some momentary joy not as a better half of his whole life.