wat to do??? my best friend has just proposed..

Be honest to him. If you don't love him or if you love him as your sole best ever friend, then let him know it. That requires courage and a tough job, but you have to be true to him. Perhaps, he can't just control what he really feels for you and proposed to you. That really happens especially to opposite genders best of friends. That happened to me many times and dealt with it. You know his personality and if you think he is the open minded type, then that's an advantage to you. It would be easier to talk when the other person has an open minded thinking. Good luck!

just tell him what you told here! very simple that "you wish to be a friend of him" why you have to be worry too much, if you want to be friend, be honest to your friend!

It is life's questions, you can not just make any decisions act wisely.

Just tell him the same thing you are telling us. Just tell him that you see him as a friend and that you have feelings for another guy. You think it would be fair for him if you didn't love him like he loves you. Best of luck hun!

Hi POO! Its true that you are really stuck on this crossrooad of life. I would have advice you to re consider your best friend's marriage proposal. I had also started a discussion about best friends and many people told me that they have married their best mates. Im not telling you that you must do it bkoz many people have done it but you can also find your love in best friend unless you try to. He has loved you for so many years and im sure if you marry him you wont your regret your decision one day. If you tell him that you are already in love with someone else i think he will swallow this bitter truth silently though his heart will be tearing apart. Rest assure that he will be by your side whenever you need him. Dont think with your heart in this matter he will not help but mislead you to take the wrong step.