Sacrifice or..
By Jessem
@Jessem (372)
Mauritius
July 11, 2007 12:22pm CST
If ever you come to know that your best mate with whom you have shared everything till date is also madly love with the same girl/boy as you but no one has proposed her/him yet. What what will you do in that situation? Go for your love or sacrifice for the sake of frienship? Will you deter your friend from telling the girl/boy his feelings? Will you asked the girl out before your friend?
5 responses
@moomincat (321)
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11 Jul 07
Theres a saying all is fair in love and war. Dont try to manipulate anyone. Make your feelings known to the girl/boy. Let them decide. If there is chemistry it will work out, if they prefer your friend that way, then its time to move on. Heard of the same thing happening in a family with siblings let a loan a friend. We just have to live with it.
@moomincat (321)
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12 Jul 07
You sound like a wonderful romantic with a big heart. It is unlikely that the young lady is attracted to both of you, thats not the sort of person you would be interested in. Cant you just find out a little without committing yourself to see what her feelings are. Does she know you both like her.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 07
You should explain to your friend that you feel the same for this girl - if he doesnt know. And its her decision if one of you decide to ask her for a date and she says yes. You should tell your friend that you dont want to ruin your friendship between you two but somethings are meant to be and some arent.
@elusive01 (55)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
Wow. what a dilemma.. should this thing ever happen to me, id be lost too. hmmn... i need to ponder a moment:)
for the sake of honesty, being selfish, id go for love..or not:) hmmn.. this is really hard.. guess you need something like this to really happen to you to get in touch with you *evil side.. or you might meet your *angel side.. but for me, that would be highly unlikely.. uhh.. hope i made sense to yah:)
@MAAROUFA (7)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
in thaat case its not his or ur dicission to chose but its the decission of the third person whom u both love, to decide that whoom he or she loves and u shudnt force lv ...coz lv cmes as a reflex action coz u will never know wn u fall in lv ...but if u have a really big hart and u lv ur friend then i think u shud bak off instead of letting urself to be his or her partner coz this is life bro!!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Its really hard to be in that situation and honestly I already experienced it. But I think it was just a crush or infatuation that time but I really like seeing his face everyday, until one day my close friend told me that she also have crush on him. Its okay for me. The guy sent a love letter to my friend and it hurts but I don't get angry to my friend because she is the one that guy like and that is our crush decision. I think the one who need to decide in that situation is the one who both of you love.
